My husband is controlling, lazy, and a hypochondriac. He does not keep a job, is not interested in pursing any education so that he could better find a job. He is at home and is offended that I would want him to do much of anything around the house. Also he drains our bank account, regularly we are overdrawn or he purchases things that we cannot afford.
He yells at me or our kids when he is mad, calls me at least 10 times a day at work, and is suspicious of relationships I have with others. Also, he is often crude, racist, fataphobic, or otherwise offensive.
Lastly, he has numerous illnesses, some real some not, that require many emergency room visits.
I am afraid to get a divorce as I don't want to share custody of my children. Also, I have no clue how to go about it, or if I should stick it out for the kids. He does not hit me or our kids and he does not drink.
Thanks for your honest advice.
2006-10-02
11:37:16
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cassandra
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Marriage & Divorce