2006-10-02 11:37:23 · 60 answers · asked by jennifer b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you're volumptuous. you have curves, and your probably a good looking person. dont let any guy tell you otherwise alright, nobody has a right to make you feel uncomfotable in your own body. love yourself. listen to christina aguilera. " you are beautiful, no matter what they say, words can't bring you down."
your boyfriend must be insecure about his own personal dilemmas so dont take any notice. if he constantly calls you names, he is not being supportive and you might consider "dumping him".
2006-10-02 11:48:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I weight 140 and look great! Curvey figure.
But are your assets all in the right place at your weight?
Sometimes what u say could mean u are bottom heavy
or have fat arms, etc., get the picture. Everybody carrys their weight diffrently, so u could look heavier, than u are.
I hate to say this but alot of people think i weigh, less, but
I work out and like musle tone and it weighs more.
By the way i am 5'4" too I weigh more!
2006-10-02 11:42:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes ,actually, we'are ALL fat! Some of us have more than the other. You should talk to you doctor, to be sure. The ideal weight has been increased!
If your heavier than you were a year ago than I'd be concerned. If your boyfriend was around before you gained the weight, then he has the right to question any change, but he doesn't have the right to insult you! Make sure he knows that.
If he was around when you weighed what weigh now than his true character is emerging and he needs to find another girlfriend! If he's not happy with who you are, he probably never will be.
2006-10-02 12:21:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
For someone 5'4" and between the ages of 25-59 129 lbs. would be considered medium frame...normal. 127 and lower is considered small frame. If you weighed yourself clothed subtract 3 lbs down to 126 lbs.
Only fat around here is around your boyfriend's head.
2006-10-02 11:56:28 · answer #4 · answered by sprydle 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend says you're fat he no longer needs to be your boyfriend. 129 is NOT fat. Any man who will put you down, no matter how many nice things he's done, is not the man for you. Get out NOW while you can and meet someone who is going to like/love you for who you are.
2006-10-02 11:39:30 · answer #5 · answered by Me 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Girl, if a man loves you it doesn't matter what size u r...No woman, girl, female, male, boy, dog, cat, etc deserves or needs verbal and mental abuse. Think about it seriously. If he doesn't build u up and constantly criticize u. U may want to consider being w/this person. 54 129 is not fat at all....that like janet jackson size...be careful how u allow him to make u feel
2006-10-02 11:44:26 · answer #6 · answered by crunchy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is entirely too image-conscious. And he sounds like a jerk too. You are at a perfectly healthy, acceptable weight. Do not lose weight just to make him happy. Chances are, if you do, he will find some other imagined "flaw," ie: "Your nose is too long, you should get a nose job," or "Since you lost weight, your breasts have gotten smaller, get a boob job."
Any man that would say that to the woman he is supposed to love is much too immature to value a good relationship.
2006-10-02 11:42:12 · answer #7 · answered by Amelie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's an idiot and is just trying to control you through your own insecurities. You look great at what ever weight you are happy at. It dosen't matter what you weigh as long as you are proportional. Weight has little to do with fat but more with overall body composition.
2006-10-02 11:41:53 · answer #8 · answered by gruntman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could easily drop more than 129 pounds in a matter of minutes if you get rid of him. He's mean.
2006-10-02 11:38:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you could stand to lose some, but that is a shitty thing for your boyfriend to say to you. Sounds like a big jerk to me.
I am 5'3" and when I weighed 130 I felt like I was fat, was in size 12 juniors = fat to me. your only an inch taller so unless you lift weights or really muscular some how, I'd say you on the heavy side.
Now I weigh 100 pounds. Shopping is so much fun now and I am not self concious anymore. I am a size 2 and I look damn good in everything I wear and butt *** naked so .... yeah!
2006-10-02 11:44:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
You need to lose your boyfriend, that is who, you should lose. Since he can"t accept you for who you are, you are the same person, your weight should not be a problem, He sounds as though he is controlling, so you need to get out of this relationship, because it is the weight now, the next time it will be something else.
2006-10-02 11:45:15 · answer #11 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋