i have asked a girl on a date and see sayed no and we sat there talking most of the night and we both like each other but are both scared of commitment and do not know what to do so can anyone help me?
2006-10-02 11:45:29 · 11 answers · asked by moz2befree 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't be distressed or discouraged, for one thing, neither of you want to commit, and you don't need to marry or anything like that to have a relationship, besides, marriage ends badly more times then not. so have good times with each other, and be happy:)
2006-10-02 11:53:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow try to be her friend if ur both scared of commitment then you should agree on just being friends...for now, then if you still want her after you got to know her more then try to take it a lil farther, ask to go "kick it" not go on a "date", trust me it'll work
2006-10-02 18:50:11 · answer #2 · answered by Island Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she said no, then it means no! She doesn't like you! You are not scared of commitment either, she is though. You should let her go, there are plenty for females for you. just go ask another girl out, it is that easy. and make sure she sees how little you care about her at this point, it might actually make her come around. i wouldn't count on it though.
2006-10-02 18:48:47 · answer #3 · answered by tonymandotcom 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to be committed to someone to date them.......ask her if she would like to go out with you again pictures or something. If she says no then she isn't interested so you will have to forget her and find someone else to date.
2006-10-02 18:54:01 · answer #4 · answered by nitpicker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang out as friends. If the spark is there for real, it will become a relationship, if not, at least you will have a friend you can count on.
2006-10-02 18:56:02 · answer #5 · answered by fullmoonwolf4real 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slowly - if you find fun things to do on dates and show her a good time maybe she'll thaw...
2006-10-02 19:27:27 · answer #6 · answered by bovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One date is not a committment. Explain that to her. She may have another reason and doesn't want to tell you.
2006-10-02 18:48:20 · answer #7 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be consistant.... the slow and steady win the race.
Be good and patient.
Best wishes
2006-10-02 18:48:12 · answer #8 · answered by Denise W 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try group dates...ur friends and hers
2006-10-02 18:47:40 · answer #9 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
. . . maybe if you spend less time talking about your gay friends? . . .
2006-10-02 19:01:22 · answer #10 · answered by Astra 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋