Family & Relationships - 1 October 2006

I've been out trying to find a girlfriend, and it seems like every one that I ask wanted to be just friends. Im not talking about after just meeting them and all, its after a few times of seeing each other and I work up the nerve to ask. After becoming just friends, i can never work myself out of being "just friends". I dont act all needy or desparate or anything else creepy, it just doesnt seem to work. what the hell im i doing wrong?

2006-10-01 01:43:14 · 4 answers · asked by average_everyday_normal_guy 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm not sure if other people have asked this question, but I am seeking advice on this question. There's this guy I've known since July, and he seemed to be flirting with me when we first met (somewhat, not to an extreme), and said he liked me (I don't know how in what way). But we're very good friends now, him telling me things he doesn't tell anyone else, phone numbers,ect. ect. But now I'm head over heels! It's not for looks or whatever, he makes me happy, good personality, and such. But how do I tell without making it awkward or something like that, and can a lost-distance friendship/relation ship (???) work? I apoligize if a question like this has already been answered.

2006-10-01 01:41:16 · 11 answers · asked by unknown_Sam 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Colin meets a girl on the street. He says, "Come on, babe, let's go in the alleyway and get it on. I've got fifteen bucks."

She says, "FIFTEEN bucks? You're crazy. For fifteen bucks, I'll let you LOOK at it."

They go into the alleyway, she pulls down her pants, and he gets down on his knees. But he can't see anything, because it's too dark, so he gets out his lighter. He lights his lighter, and he says, "My God, your pubic hair... it's so curly and thick... it's BEAUTIFUL."

She says, "Thank you."

He says, "You mind if I ask you a personal question?"

She says, "Go ahead."

He says, "Can you pee through all that hair?"

She says, "Of course."

He says, "Well, you better start. You're on fire."

2006-10-01 01:41:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-01 01:41:06 · 13 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

no matter what you do for him he does not appreciate , what will you do with him ?

2006-10-01 01:39:35 · 12 answers · asked by Khosrow A 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-01 01:39:11 · 16 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

While my wife hates all my sexual innuendos, I know she is going to miss them when I am gone.

2006-10-01 01:38:59 · 19 answers · asked by butnozzle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-01 01:38:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-01 01:37:37 · 5 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

or an office meeting like this

pg 13 video no nudity , adult themes , sexualy suggestive

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vNNPB107t4g

2006-10-01 01:37:32 · 2 answers · asked by bolounit1 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-01 01:35:55 · 18 answers · asked by Cristina D 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-01 01:35:47 · 8 answers · asked by larger than life 1 in Singles & Dating

Seriously, He has been picking on me since 4th or 5th grade and him and his friends used to call me Corndog Girl all the time up until I told the principal. Now they just see me often out in the street on a walk or bike ride.
But the thing is he talks about me like I'm a piece of dirt. He says I'm ugly and fat and need to take diet pills instead of eating and also that I need Proactive. He calls me hunchback.
As revenge for breaking my heart, I took a broken head set off the street and threw it in his yard trying to send him that message. The next day at school his friend told me that Kyle was going to bash my face in. So I stayed home that night.
At the football game he saw me hanging with the seniors and was behind me trying to get my attention. I just looked at him with a smile and shook my head.
The only reason why I was with the seniors is b/c one of them caught me crying behind a shed. Kyle already has a girlfriend and I just don't get why boys are always hurting my feelings.

2006-10-01 01:35:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i came to the uk to work in b2b sales and am hearing that am not a typical sales guy and my body language is limited. what can that be?

is this related to the english hypocritical showing emotions that they dont feel and that english people like bulshiting each other that way, and i may be too real in my body language?

2006-10-01 01:34:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yes, I have done it.

2006-10-01 01:34:17 · 10 answers · asked by butnozzle 2 in Family

Seems to be true for both sexes.

2006-10-01 01:30:43 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how can a man please his wife in bed?

2006-10-01 01:29:55 · 8 answers · asked by freebird 1 in Weddings

allright, so my computer's not working (at least not for internet stuff) and i have to use my fiancee's mac...only, i use it to also go on this website and ask really private stuff (yes, even to ask questions about him, on many occasions to vent, and to look at porno) anyway, it turns out he went to history and looked up what i was looking at, and even read my questions and answers on this site!! i'm fuming! only it is his computer and that was his argument...now i feel paranoid about the sites i visit...shouldn't it just be common courtesy not to spy on people's stuff? his answer is get your pc fixed...my point is, it doesn't matter...he shouldn't do it...so what is your point of view??

2006-10-01 01:29:45 · 5 answers · asked by ingrid 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Some one i know went out with some one and that someone broke up with him. The irl started going out with his twin brother. Is that wrong because i think it is

2006-10-01 01:28:14 · 18 answers · asked by Uchihaitachi345 5 in Friends

Should the UK adopt like many other countires and make prenuptial agreements legal and why?

2006-10-01 01:27:51 · 15 answers · asked by Dark Mennis 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been in a relationship know for like 5 months with a freind on mines that i have been freinds with for the last 9 years and we just decided to take the freinship further into a relationship,the only thing that bothers me is her daughter that is six is the kid from hell she is rude,doesn't listen and she runs her mother,like at times i cant tell who the kid is,her daughter will change the tv on me even if she see's me watching it for an hour,and my girlfreind excuses is that i am on her daughters turf,but i wanna tell my girlfreind that she always has excuses for her child being bad,her kid is 6 and she has to lay down in the bed with her child to make her go to sleep like she is 6 months old,i wanna say something to my girlfreind but i dont know how to say it in the right way,but i feel like her not displing her kid is gonna be the end of me and her sooner or later,even though i do like my girlfreind but not her thinking her daughter can do no wrong or always making excuses

2006-10-01 01:27:27 · 12 answers · asked by bigboi64 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I recently met this guy on vacation called Alex.We immidiatly clicked.I'm 13 and he is 14 but he looks older.There was this other guy on vacation too, who likes me but Im not interested cuz of Alex, but the other guy told me Alex is close to using weed (he already smokes ciggatettes) and a masculine whore.I dont know if this is jealousy or not?But anyways it could be true!Cuz he is a rebel and all, but Im crazy over him!I'll see him again in December.. What should I do pleaz help?

2006-10-01 01:26:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what are your views on early marriage or what is an appropriate age or stage in life to get married? just want your opinion......

2006-10-01 01:24:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

coz i just broke up with the gurl i loved the most n i cant 4get her n there is no way taht we can get back 2gether.......n i wanna 4get her (or at least pretend) but i cant n its really hard

so if u can gimme an advice tell me but dont tell me 2 easily stop thinkin about her coz u know that aint easy

2006-10-01 01:24:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean i think he's cute but i dunno...........

2006-10-01 01:24:00 · 12 answers · asked by Niki B 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-01 01:21:54 · 7 answers · asked by chelsea 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm seeing this boy...when we are together we have the time of our life, but he is just not capable of having a relationship...he is not responsible to other people, he is too egoistic, and even though he tries it's not working...and i'm wondering if i should continue to have this strnage kind of relationship with him or should i end it...he is great, but this is killing me...

2006-10-01 01:21:35 · 7 answers · asked by Cocolocococ 2 in Singles & Dating

Do women know they can get anything(almost) out of us by blending directness with sugar coating .

I think this is lost on them .We cant read minds but we dont want to be nagged to death or have her be overbearing.

A teaspoon of sugar makes the medicine go down.

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2006-10-01 01:21:10 · 4 answers · asked by bolounit1 2 in Singles & Dating

This may grate against some egos and trigger some cynical responses. My apologies. I'm a real person. This is a real problem.

Saturday morning I finally learned something new and valuable about Love, and I've been processing it all day.

Bluntly put, here it is:

If I love too completely, too selflessly, with too pure an intention, with too whole a heart...then those who receive it and try to return it end up feeling inadequate because what they give (and why they give) doesn't measure up in their eyes to what they receive. Although they may try to improve what they give, in the end their feelings of inadequacy are too much for their ego and sense of security within the relationship: they end up feeling they need my love more than I need theirs.

Instead of finding a balance between the love given and the love received, they feel they are receiving far more than they are giving or indeed can give. This feeling of hopeless inadequacy leads them to walk/run away.

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2006-10-01 01:20:53 · 8 answers · asked by bobkgin 3 in Singles & Dating

he live 3 home a way from me it hard when i see him with some one i have went out but it like iwish it was him

2006-10-01 01:18:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating