I've been out trying to find a girlfriend, and it seems like every one that I ask wanted to be just friends. Im not talking about after just meeting them and all, its after a few times of seeing each other and I work up the nerve to ask. After becoming just friends, i can never work myself out of being "just friends". I dont act all needy or desparate or anything else creepy, it just doesnt seem to work. what the hell im i doing wrong?
2006-10-01 01:43:14 · 4 answers · asked by average_everyday_normal_guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Could be lots of things that is putting you in the "just friends" department. The first thing that pops into my thoughts is that you may be going after the wrong girls. Maybe you are just asking girls out that are not interested. Before asking a girl out and being turned down yet again, get to know her a little first and take it slow from there, it may turn into something with you even noticing. Don't just jump on any girl that gives you the time of day, look for cues that she is interested. Give them time, otherwise you will end up with a full black book of Girl"just"friends. Good luck!
2006-10-01 02:56:13 · answer #1 · answered by mama mia! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try having a look at http://www.niceguys.org/
I think they cover that scenario there, and say how to solve it. It's a free site too. Good luck!
Edit: It sounds like a type 3 or type 4 problem (according to the convention of classification on the site).
Type 3: You meet women that you're interested in, but they're not interested in you at all. http://www.niceguys.org/theProgram/solutions3.shtml
Type 4: "But I don't think of you that way"
http://www.niceguys.org/theProgram/solutions4.shtml
2006-10-01 09:09:24 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you aren't doing anything wrong it's all up to the girls as soon as you ask them out your putting yourself out there, i don't mean to sound like a broken record but just sooner or later you'll meet the one girl that actually feels the same way you do. so just have patience. there's nothing you can so the girls change their minds about you. sorry
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2006-10-01 08:47:25 · answer #4 · answered by d d 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋