2006-10-01 01:21:54 · 7 answers · asked by chelsea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you are saying some thing is OK, and it is not you are lying to him and to yourself.Your insecurity, is setting you up for a major fall, because no one can live a perpetual lie. At some time, this lie will come back and hurt you very badly. Stop agreeing, and speak up for yourself
2006-10-01 01:35:32 · answer #1 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is this really about? is it some real important issue, or is it the everyday stuff? don't listen to what those people say..sometimes it is ok to say "allright" when things aren't perfect, then get busy doing something else, and before you know it, a week has passed and you realize, it really was not a big deal, and it IS ok...
look, if you really love someone, it means you learn to be patient, you learn that life isn't about being 'perfect' and allright, but about loving someone,and accepting things as they come too! Now if this is a serious issue , and by that i mean, his behaviour towards you (unloving) or a health issue, then yes, make sure you speak out, otherwise, say your poit of view, try to make him understand, and if he doesn't, oh well...model positive behaviour and he'll start to be taht way too...it works...
2006-10-01 08:39:56 · answer #2 · answered by ingrid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are lying and that never comes to any good.if you feel like you can't be honest with him for fear of losing him or making him angry than you have chosen the wrong man.i think you know this.don't be with a man just to say you have a man that's old school.you want a man who finds all you do and say interesting and lovable. drop that zero and find a hero.
2006-10-01 08:44:07 · answer #3 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off stop saying it is okay when it is not or you will confuse your boyfriend and he will grow annoyed.
2006-10-01 09:39:33 · answer #4 · answered by actresscye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it isnt okay, you should NEVER say that it is. Communication is key, sounds like you dont have it.
2006-10-01 08:23:36 · answer #5 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If things aren't okay, don't say they are.
I did this for fourteen years, and saying it just doesn't make it so.
2006-10-01 08:23:25 · answer #6 · answered by T Time 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just lose the weight, not only will you look better but fat people are unhealthy...
2006-10-01 08:23:40 · answer #7 · answered by Dave evaD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋