Family & Relationships - 22 September 2006

first I'm not the mothering type! Im not good with kids i dont even really like kids. well kids are ok i guess, its just babies. they make me nervous so i would just perfer not to be around them. My problem is im on birth control and found out a few weeks ago i'm pregnant. Ive been with my bf for over 5 yrs i know he wants kids the thing is i dont. I dont want to have a abortain and my bf was in the whole foster care system all his life till he turn 18 and was kicked out on his butt with $500 and no other help, so i know he would never go for adoption. I'm willing to have the kid im just scared i'll be a horrible mother and not love the kid cause i'm just not a baby person. Even around my friends kids they try to get me to talk to the baby and hold them and im just not into it. I dont do all that gugu talk. Dont get me wrong me and bf are both educated, we work and make desent money, so im not worried about affording it,im just scared ill reck its like by having a heartless mother!!

2006-09-22 20:39:02 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I thought it meant to cut someone open, and eat their insides out, but when I tried it my g/f freaked out.

2006-09-22 20:38:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-22 20:36:40 · 9 answers · asked by believer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Where would you go (within the USA), how would you live?
In addition to changing your name and appearance what other steps would you take never to be found?

2006-09-22 20:36:35 · 5 answers · asked by Yellowstonedogs 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I met a lady i really fell for. We both divorced, she has a really good job, her husband was very wealthy person. I'm just a production operator. My friend tells me she's really interested in me. I'm affraid i want beable too give her the life her husband gave her. The reason they divorced is because he was having an affair. She is not like the richy type at all. She got the huge house they had just built. I'm just affraid that me not having a big money making income will be a problem for her. She don't know what i make and if she asks, i'll be soo embarrassed. I'm not out for the money, i wish i could find someone who will like me for who i am.

2006-09-22 20:33:46 · 12 answers · asked by take-it 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-22 20:31:05 · 38 answers · asked by osh67 1 in Weddings

when we hangout together they used to be very nice and afterward they backbites me. they dont like me it seems. what should i do.avoid them? i dont think thats good so....

2006-09-22 20:30:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Being separated for about 3 months and he has a girlfriend so y do he worry who I see and who i talk to. I still love him but I see he moved on but he can't stop asking on what I do.

2006-09-22 20:29:33 · 19 answers · asked by Hawaiianlady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i m a 23 yr old. birth time is 12:00p.m.
name started with the letter K. b'day is 14 mar.
tell me something abt my future

2006-09-22 20:28:49 · 12 answers · asked by brinish c 1 in Family

friendship is good or the online friendship is the best.Please give your true opinion and the name of your very close friend.

2006-09-22 20:27:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-22 20:27:17 · 11 answers · asked by ok 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-22 20:25:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Guy 1 . Really nice and sweet and always trying to please you and acts like he cant live without you .
Guy 2 . This one is a classic jerk / badboy type .
Guy 3 . Is cocky and funny and isent needy and basicly has masculin personality and is dominant , in control in a cool way so hes a masculin nice not a softie nice .

Id say number 3 because 1 is the typical nice guy ya know the one who confesses his love for you after like a week if im right you girls go " Eww " to that type hes to girly. Type 2 well althougth you dont like being beaten up etc by this type he happend to create attraction and yu feel it even thougth logicaly you know hes not the best thing for you but he is more attractive and fun than the no 1 . And number 3 well i chose this because this is the guy with james bond type of coolness , and has that rock star charm etc .

2006-09-22 20:25:25 · 18 answers · asked by badass-mofu 5 in Singles & Dating

but this lady in question told me before that she has a boyfriend, but she is not happy in the relationship

2006-09-22 20:24:11 · 11 answers · asked by funnykindel 1 in Singles & Dating

hi to everybody out there....... its a local holiday in my city, indiaso i am really getting bored............have u guys got anything interesting to share or any advice on what i can do...................thanx to every1...

2006-09-22 20:22:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My son has been in my care since he was 18 months , his mother left at seven, never to return and he has grown up with me .
His natural father has seen him three times for a day at a time in twelve years
He is my own
All his school records carry my name , as do his sporting records.
However his medical records don't . Due to legal reasons I have always kept them legitimate .
He is sick of the confusion, As I am and, would like to leagally change his name .
When can he do it with out his natural patents consent .
He is 14 years old .

Cheating here getting two questions for the price of one
Is it morally right in your opinion for my son to change his Sir name .
He also wants to add my middle Christian name to his

2006-09-22 20:20:52 · 24 answers · asked by kevin d 4 in Family

Can anyone give me more information about this phenomenon and why a mans is from 18-25 and a womans much later?

2006-09-22 20:19:30 · 12 answers · asked by Jeff W 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

When you catch them staring at you, then they smile and look away. When they stay close to you as much as they can. Also, when they "accidentally" bump into you.

2006-09-22 20:17:13 · 16 answers · asked by sweetchick 1 in Friends

do you think you guys can help me with this one... were having our homecoming in about 2 weeks... and i still don't have a date... i asked this girl... shes in my class and when the bell rings.. i asked her, "Michelle, are you going to Homecoming?" first i called her name and she looked at me... when i asked her... she kept walking and didn't answer me... i think she doesn't like me... so... what should i do? i really like her...

2006-09-22 20:15:55 · 9 answers · asked by christopherjohn3 1 in Singles & Dating

i want to learn about some cndition that is vital to get visa for my wife

2006-09-22 20:15:09 · 2 answers · asked by nabi z 1 in Weddings

2006-09-22 20:13:31 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

seen as just part of everyday life?

2006-09-22 20:12:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Like when u ask a female her vital stats she replies e.g. 36-24-36.what does that mean exactly?

2006-09-22 20:12:18 · 19 answers · asked by ed 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I now I am in Dubai just 3 and half month ago and just 2 after of my marriage. My wife was my cousin and we love each other very much. Her parents, sister and everybody in her family was not agree. But my parents managed my marriage at any cost. Now from the last 15 days she is with her parents and trying to call me back and saying she will commit suicide and moreover she is missing me a lot and fell sick there. I am very worried. I am working in good company. I have just finished my training. The company will not leave me because it has invested lots of money on me. What I do. Pls guide me plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz I am on the verge of death.

2006-09-22 20:10:53 · 37 answers · asked by khan_asim7862002 1 in Family

blueheart16, age 35.Pasig City,City of Manila Philippines.we met at bbw personals plus.she knows me by the name earlthesquirrille.

2006-09-22 20:10:19 · 3 answers · asked by william k 1 in Singles & Dating

What we called sisters Child

2006-09-22 20:10:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

A husband has a total of $2500 in his payroll account yet keeps $25 in the family joint account, can a wife sue him for anything if she found out some other way about his payroll account which he doesn't disclose to her? He doesn't know that his wife knows about the payroll account. And right now I'm keeping her from killing him. They have three kids and she's also working but she feels this is just too much since he doesn't even give her even 1% of anything he earns.

2006-09-22 20:09:07 · 3 answers · asked by Equinox 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

WHEN A COUPLE HAS LIVED TOGETHER MORE THAN 6 MONTHS AND ONE WANTS TO GET MARRIED, BUT THE OTHER IS UNSURE, WHY IS THIS, USUALLY?

2006-09-22 20:08:38 · 9 answers · asked by SHYGUY 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-22 20:07:18 · 11 answers · asked by dawink 2 in Singles & Dating

My bf and I have been together for a few months, he picked up the pieces of my broken heart. I have never lied to him about anything. He has been talkin about us being closer and doin more together and wishing that he could see more of me. He has been tryin to get closer to me and I was ok with that, but our relationship was supposed to be casual. Both of us were supposed to lead our own lives, we are both very busy. I have been makin time for him and he has been doin likewise. We have been gettin very close and we recently had an arguement about how he thinks that we are "too close". We only see each other about twice a week. I thought that he was tryin to nicely break up with me but later he told me that he was actually tryin to apologize for not spendin more time with me. He said that he didnt think it was fair that he didnt have enough time for me. So was he really tryin to break up with me and changed his mind or was he tryin to apologize? I dont understand what this means. Help?

2006-09-22 20:06:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating