when we hangout together they used to be very nice and afterward they backbites me. they dont like me it seems. what should i do.avoid them? i dont think thats good so....
2006-09-22 20:30:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just dont take anything to heart... There can be better faithful freinds... Dont trust these friends of yours with your secrets... Jus hang around with them if you wanna... But if you are looking for a friend whom you can trust, seek for it... Dont blindly trust and expect the whole world to be wonderful & faithful to you
2006-09-22 21:07:49 · answer #1 · answered by Little Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends who criticise are most of the time unhappy with some lapse on your part such as leaking group secrets . In any case, ask yourself honestly whether there can be any reason for them to act this way. If you can find it, tell them honestly that you are sorry about it.Otherwise ,tell them how you feel about the situation and ask them what you should do get their love back. If they give you honest feedback, do as they suggest. If they are playing games, it is good you have lost them!
2006-09-22 20:54:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they were ever your true firends then they would,.nt do that to you when your back is turned ok.what you need to do is find you some other firends that are true and respectfull to you.because you dont need firends like them.and thats why they are doing that because they know that they can get away with it.so dont let them.show them your better then them and make other firends.that there will get them better and it will be there lose not your,s.good luck.
2006-09-22 20:35:51 · answer #3 · answered by bigmomma s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you call that friends?
No. I don't agree. There was this girl who came and stay at my place. It was out of pity, I let her come.
Later, I found out that she tries to destroy my relationship with my boyfriend who stays in too.
She always act nice. But actually not. It's like... when i make her breakfast, she wasn't even thankful. She would say things like... actually... i don't kind of like this kind of food for breakfast...
or... she will tell me how she and my boyfriend jogged together...
and hurt my feelings.
Some people would hurt you in these kind of ways.
Your "friends" might not like you but don't know how to tell you. SO, they purposely talk bad behind you to make you go.
My advice is... be strong and leave them. You will find better friends.
2006-09-22 20:59:36 · answer #4 · answered by sassy girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way is to confront them about your problem... express to them your feelings to make them realize how they are hurting you and making you confused... I know it is a bit hard but It is sure the best way to clear things out and possibly to start a new and stronger friendship... talk to them personally... and be ready also for whatever reactions and answers you receive from them. ..
2006-09-22 20:41:55 · answer #5 · answered by Rika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont b inferior in front of them, if they insult u then ditch them or insult them. if u still wanna b fiend then talk 2 them and make them understand how good and loyal u are. also try to make them feel how bad feel if they ignore u.
all the best
suchetana
2006-09-23 02:10:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing is make your own decision and stick with it. You'll have the best solution as you know your problems
2006-09-22 22:18:50 · answer #7 · answered by spidey_boy_14 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like that you are too much possessive. Instead you try to love others instead trying to get their love.
Mother terasa told " Don't try to judge others. If you start to judge other then you don't have time to love them".
2006-09-22 20:38:27 · answer #8 · answered by Dani boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have not harmed them or back stabbing & no loose talks too about them & still they do this they are not your real friends. Just scrape them.
2006-09-22 20:57:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them how u feel its good to express urself by talking to them and let them know u dont love it,then see what they say
2006-09-22 20:56:24 · answer #10 · answered by Snifer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋