WHEN A COUPLE HAS LIVED TOGETHER MORE THAN 6 MONTHS AND ONE WANTS TO GET MARRIED, BUT THE OTHER IS UNSURE, WHY IS THIS, USUALLY?
2006-09-22 20:08:38 · 9 answers · asked by SHYGUY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Often hesitation before action is a sign that one is unsure of the full consequence the action may represent. The opposite is usually true as well: that one who is uncertain of the consequence of a particular action often displays hesitation.
Unsureness before taking the step into a marriage contract can mean that someone is rethinking his ability to commit, or his belief in his would-be partner, or perhaps he is unsure of the honesty of the relationship... there could be an almost infinite array of answers here.
The bottom line is: hesitation before making such a big step isn't necessarily a bad sign... It can be a very wise thing to do.
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2006-09-22 20:18:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just scared maybe. My husband would have married me after being together for 2 months, but I wouldn't get married. The last 2 relationships I've had were bad ones. The first ending in divorce. We finally got married after 10 months but I still wasn't 100% sure, but I'm so glad I did. I knew that I loved him and wanted to spend my life with him, but at the same time I was scared because of what I had already been through in the past. Just don't rush it. If it's meant to happen, it will happen in it's own time.
2006-09-23 03:13:35 · answer #2 · answered by sweet.pjs1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the person who's not sure doesn't want to be married to the person who wants to get married. Maybe the sure one is a slob or a workaholic or any other millions of possibilities of things. Usually when people move in together, they find out real quickly if they're compatible. Sounds like a no-go if only one party is sure.
2006-09-23 03:21:08 · answer #3 · answered by sodamncute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this means that the other person is not completely interested in the relationship. listen relatipnships can not be made forcefully. if love is true it rushes to u and stays for long, i mean lifetime. so dont be in a hurry, rather wait patiently and dont fall into intimacy wit tat friend or it becomes hell even after u close the chapter of that relationship.
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2006-09-23 03:16:21 · answer #4 · answered by DEVESTATED 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 months for me is too short to think that way. considering the thought is OK, but acting on it is too short.
2006-09-23 03:10:43 · answer #5 · answered by DaNewGuy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is the key, the answer to show your true love
2006-09-23 03:15:25 · answer #6 · answered by Neighbour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
* SCARED TO COMMIT.
* FINANCIAL WORRIES.
* NOT CONFIDENT OF THE OTHER PARTNER.
* SEES A BLEAK FUTURE AFTER THE COMMITTMENT.
* DOES NOT WANT TO SURRENDER HIS FREEDOM.
* DOES NOT WANT THE RESPONSIBILITY YET.
2006-09-23 03:11:56 · answer #7 · answered by Sarang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the other one needs more time.
2006-09-23 03:11:52 · answer #8 · answered by Hermione Malfoy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the other one is not ready yet...
2006-09-23 03:10:55 · answer #9 · answered by christopherjohn3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋