Family & Relationships - 17 September 2006

i've seen and heard that many women would have sex with a man at a bar/clubs/ etc. the night they met, i'm not opposed to that idea of fun. What i am curious about is why would some women let strangers touch their bodies and have sex with them by their moods and feels at the moment, wheras say, would never consider having sex with guys that are clearly attracted to them, say recent dates, guy friends, .... etc. so i guess my question is do women feel better about having sex with a guy she barely knew, "the excitement, mysterious type" than the guys that she frequent with? if they can be slut for new guys, why can't they be sluts for the others too?

2006-09-17 11:23:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Gahh i fall in lust with all the guys who are really cute...

And no, i'm not a player or anything, i only like about 5 guys. it's just that instead of LOVing then, i Lust for them. It sucks...

Is there any way to turn my lust into love? or should i wait and ...idk...something...

2006-09-17 11:22:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok I always love joking around with friends but...sometimes I seem too immature and they get tired of it! like the other day in the hallway at school I went up to one of the guy teachers and said "hey do you want to make $2? then lick the wall!" gosh I don't know why I always act so slow! so how can I joke around with people but not sound stupid?

2006-09-17 11:22:26 · 10 answers · asked by Hayley 3 in Friends

i've seen and heard that many women would have sex with a man at a bar/clubs/ etc. the night they met, i'm not opposed to that idea of fun. What i am curious about is why would some women let strangers touch their bodies and have sex with them by their moods and feels at the moment, wheras say, would never consider having sex with guys that are clearly attracted to them, say recent dates, guy friends, .... etc. so i guess my question is do women feel better about having sex with a guy she barely knew, "the excitement, mysterious type" than the guys that she frequent with? if they can be slut for new guys, why can't they be sluts for the others too?

2006-09-17 11:22:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Always something wrong with the way you look, the things you do or say
To a point where you ask yourself why even asking me out in the first place and staying with you now
How can someone tell you he loves you and then denigrate you five minutes later?
No once ,not twice,but regularly?

2006-09-17 11:22:06 · 7 answers · asked by Nini kya 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you call your boyfriend a nickname like Daddy? And what age are you?

2006-09-17 11:22:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do i do! i dont know how to make out with someone! what if i do it wrong

2006-09-17 11:21:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 11:21:16 · 32 answers · asked by Chocolatemac 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-17 11:21:07 · 12 answers · asked by syrea6 1 in Singles & Dating

his name is Justin, We met in a couple of my classes last year Now later on he had asked me 2 work on a project w/him why not? So he met my family and we did our project. We ended up cing each other every weekend I was here in the US since we r in the same Karate class. Then like a month ago at 1 of my friend's B-day Parties we were singing while this DJ was playing these songs and he came over 2 where I, my sister, my best friend, and one of my other good friends where and he goes "oh there r no more seats" and sits on my lap. I hate being touched but he wouldn't get off my lap and he started giving me a lap dance. Then finally I pushed him off. Luckily 2 cuz my mom had just arrived 2 take me home. Anywayz at one of our meetings we were talking and he said really loud that he liked italians and wanted 2 marry 1 like out of nowhere. He was looking at me 2. (I am Italian) So do u think he likes me? He sometimes acts all love like around other gals 2 though especially his gf.

2006-09-17 11:19:40 · 5 answers · asked by Catherine 1 in Singles & Dating

guys what do u think a girl must have in order 4 u 2 ask them out

2006-09-17 11:19:03 · 16 answers · asked by ***** K K ***** 2 in Singles & Dating

One of my co-workers at the Chicago Sun Times was walking by and I asked him to run to Jamba Juice for a mango smoothie with extra protein because I was trying to shape up. I told him that I had no cash on me and was all worked up because Around the Horn was getting set to air. He said no problem. He went and got my drink. Then I bitched and moaned that it was not extra-large (He could only afford a regular size) and I refused to pay him back.
I will never pay him back!

http://www.jaythejoke.com/blog.html

2006-09-17 11:19:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

okay, i have blonde curly hair about down to my elbows and dark blue eyes. i like to read and write, and want to be a journalist. i have straight A's in advanced classes. i'm a little bit shy around people i dont know, but once i get to know them i pretty talkative. i play the guitar and have for about a year and a 1/2. i like to sing and act. i have a good sense of humor, but im sarcastic a lot. i have a hard time trusting people at first, but once i do, i am completely loyal. i stick up for my friends even when noone else will. im not popular, and have no desire to be, im fine with the friends i have. i have a rather large circle of friends, consisting mostly of band geeks, chorus freaks, and drama nerds. i am or have been all of these at one point. i design and sew my own outfits most of the time. i like to play tennis, volleyball, and swim. do you like girls like this or not?

2006-09-17 11:18:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm heading to my doctors because I want to go on some kind of birth control now that I am seeing someone. I just am curious what type have you tried? What worked well, and what you didn't care for? I'm 20 years old and never had the need to go on anything till now and would just like some experienced ladies advice. Thanks.

2006-09-17 11:18:54 · 12 answers · asked by Jessye 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 11:18:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and Why?

2006-09-17 11:17:56 · 15 answers · asked by Angel E 1 in Singles & Dating

my bf won't quit bragging to his friends about how i can spread my legs far enough to put my feet on opposite sides of a queen size bed. what should i do?

2006-09-17 11:17:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Say any thing you want ...as long as it's not rude, and directed at me. Or as long as Y! doesn't delete your answer.

2006-09-17 11:16:52 · 52 answers · asked by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 11:16:51 · 3 answers · asked by Ruth A 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

He says he loves me and is coming to England to meet me, I like him (at least through how he's been on the phone, in letter and through e-mail), and now I am worried that there may be a skeleton in his cupboard. How do I find out?

2006-09-17 11:16:20 · 11 answers · asked by Curious Me 1 in Singles & Dating

my bf is the type of guy who doesn't talk but is all about makin out......i want him 2 be talkin not always makin out eventhough i like it
so tell me how i can bring him to start talkin

2006-09-17 11:13:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 11:13:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So I met this girl a while back. We've been dating and she's a great girl.

Back when I met her she was really respectful and quiet. She was very unconfident and didn't know what to say around me. Over the span of our relationship, she has grow in confidence and become less quiet, more likely to state her opinion, and more bold. The upside of this is that she feels much better about herself now.

However, there is a problem. She never shuts up now. She always states her opinion and tries to assert herself in our conversations, which I find invasive and annoying. I just wish she would be like the girl I met who never talked and sort of sulked around, out of the way.

Is there a way to ruin a girl's confidence if you're dating her? Maybe I can break her down into the same girl I met months ago and then I won't have to worry about her running her mouth all the time.

Any hints, ideas, help would be appreciated. Thanks everyone!

2006-09-17 11:13:28 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I made out with someone of the same gender for a dare! since then ive been getting nervous and daydream!What shall i do?

2006-09-17 11:13:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I made out with someone of the same gender for a dare! since then ive been getting nervous and daydream!What shall i do?

2006-09-17 11:12:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have found what you would call the right man, but it's the wrong time. A long distance relationship is just not right for either for us now due to our work situations. We dated for 6 weeks and then he was the one to come to me about ending it for now. He said, and I agreed, that we could not maintain the stress the miles put between us. He felt we should part ways lest we ruin now what we could have in the future. He thinks if we are meant to be that our love can pick back up where we left off. But it is just too painful for us both to never see eachother. So, he wants us to live life and has asked me not to put mine on hold. If someone comes along and captures my heart, then we weren't meant to be. If we are meant to be together when the time is right, then we will. I am afraid to have no communication because I'm afraid that the no contact in itself will cause us to grow apart. It will be two years we have to wait. Can men really put their love on hold like that?

2006-09-17 11:12:15 · 15 answers · asked by jewels 2 in Singles & Dating

is there a way to postpone getting my next period by starting the pill? to be more specific: I really don't want to get it before october the 1st butmy last period already ended september the 10th, and usually you start the pill on the first day of a period... did anyone ever try to start it ANY day and did it work, I mean just not to start menstruating before you want to?

2006-09-17 11:11:31 · 3 answers · asked by julesloveslife 3 in Singles & Dating

When I say most people I mean, people online and my sisters. No one else does. I am married now for 4 months and have no kids. I amfeeling like maybe I should get a divorce and become a man. I am so scared and dont know what to do.

2006-09-17 11:09:55 · 12 answers · asked by Sexxyinanothersex 1 in Marriage & Divorce

single male seeking a nice rich female with plenty of money, so i can retire early, if thats you email me at kerrybutters@hotmail.com

2006-09-17 11:09:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So i saw this really cute guy at a dance last week. i knew him from middle school, but we haven't seen each other until now, our junior year.

I dont think he recognized me, but i know i recognized him! He's such a cutie! We danced together for about 5 minutes, then the song was over and we just left each other.

Should i talk to him at school? or do you think that's too personal? He may not even know who danced with him last week!

2006-09-17 11:09:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating