When I say most people I mean, people online and my sisters. No one else does. I am married now for 4 months and have no kids. I amfeeling like maybe I should get a divorce and become a man. I am so scared and dont know what to do.
2006-09-17 11:09:55 · 12 answers · asked by Sexxyinanothersex 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First thing I would do is think about what you would be giving up if you decided to make this change like one of my friends did. He went from being a man to being a woman. Secondly, I would talk to your husband about how you feel and what is going through your mind and I would suggest having a friend nearby as he might become very aggresive and resentful. Third, if you do decide to go this, you would have to go see a plastic surgeon and he would be the one to remove your breasts. I would also talk to a transgendered counselor before doing anything as he or she will be able to tell you what you can expect from the procedure and what you can expect from everything else. If this is what you want, then I wish you all the best.
2006-09-17 11:16:16 · answer #1 · answered by Lord Draven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being scared. it is a life altering wish that you desire, so the only advice anyone can really give you is to consider what you really want, what makes YOU happy. But you should have a serious talk with your spouse before doing anything else, just to be respectful and the fact that you are married to him and would see his support would help him understand that you mean buisness.
2006-09-17 11:24:31 · answer #2 · answered by Panda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you like to become a man. I am a man and I would rather prefer to be a woman. If you are an internet user you may know that there are about 100 men waiting for each woman to chat with them. If you changed your sex, this equation will turn against you.
2006-09-17 11:15:52 · answer #3 · answered by Rustic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe try asking your doctor about one, or any information on getting a breast removal
And if you're happy in your current marriage, then stay in it, don't let others make you think twice about it if you enjoy it.
But if you aren't happy with your marriage, you should break it to your partner, you never know, it may not be working out for your partner either.
2006-09-17 11:15:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if that is what you want then go for it,, but make sure that you go
to therapy first,,, and tell you husband that you no longer like men , and you want to be one , be honest with him and yourself,
and of course you are scared, but becoming a man , will that take all your problems away, will that really complete you as a person , think about it .... let me know what you decide..
2006-09-17 11:56:40 · answer #5 · answered by E.M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If being a man makes you happy, then go right ahead. Don't let anyone, in real life or answerers to this question, stop you.
2006-09-17 11:11:48 · answer #6 · answered by Caribbean Blue 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Counseling for yourself first. If this is really what you want, then your life will be miserable until you get it. But psychological and medical counseling would be your first steps to being healthy in all aspects.
2006-09-17 11:17:05 · answer #7 · answered by flower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun stay a woman, most women have more ballz then men anyways..
2006-09-17 11:15:47 · answer #8 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where do you think you should go? A doctor's office would be a good start.
2006-09-17 11:18:03 · answer #9 · answered by joyall57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever will make u happy.
2006-09-17 11:11:51 · answer #10 · answered by Roger R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋