So i saw this really cute guy at a dance last week. i knew him from middle school, but we haven't seen each other until now, our junior year.
I dont think he recognized me, but i know i recognized him! He's such a cutie! We danced together for about 5 minutes, then the song was over and we just left each other.
Should i talk to him at school? or do you think that's too personal? He may not even know who danced with him last week!
2006-09-17 11:09:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would bring it up in light casual conversation and shift the conversation if he seems uncomfortable
2006-09-17 11:12:26 · answer #1 · answered by beaniefufer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, sweetie! As we all can a million times, ur young and u shouldn't even focusing on guys, yet. But, reality of the sitch is, we all do it and that's just how it is, right!?! LoL So, with that being said, here's my opinion. Sure, talk to him at school, and try to rekindle a friendship up first. U will probably be able to tell if he's into to u or not. And, if he is, then just go with the flow, and let things happen on their own. Don't pressure him or try to make things happen, though. If he's NOT, oh well. There's many more fish in the same sea he came from. U have to realize, boys of this age, are still absolutely intimidated by girls and way more timid than we are (whether they admit or show it or NOT}. LoL So, maybe without being too silly, or coming across too strong, accidentally {very non-chalantly} somehow, bump into to him {figuretively speaking NOT literally} and throw some your best flirting at him {batting your, complimenting him, even it's tapping on conversation of sports, a class, etc..} and read the sitch from his reaction. Though, he may NOT respond how "U" may want him to r think he should, u should b able to get the vibes if there are any there! Good Luck!
2006-09-17 11:23:19 · answer #2 · answered by Brandi A. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i say if you want him try to get him at least u know he's a lil interested cause some guys dont dance at all and when they do they dance with someone who has potential. If you put the moves on him i'm sure he'll remember you. I say sure when u see him just speak. So that way you guys can get into the habbit of speaking when you see each other. then after that spark up a small convo and take it from there. Hey its 2006 now, i would also suggest that u ask him for his number. can't hurt.
2006-09-17 11:19:42 · answer #3 · answered by tyramarie26 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Send him a secret admirer note and watch it drive him crazy or you could just do the normal thing and walk up to him and ask if he remembers you. You can find out real quick if he is interested or not. Just say Hi and see how that works.
2006-09-17 11:15:06 · answer #4 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You bet he knows you danced with him.Talk to him and tell him who you are and that you knew him in middle school.Most guys at that age are still a little shy,the conversation will probably open him up.Good luck.
2006-09-17 11:17:05 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. Say Hi remembering dancing with me. Then go from there.
2006-09-17 11:12:06 · answer #6 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats the only problems with dances. i don't think that if i dance with a guy he'll remeber who he danced with.
you should talk to him just don't really mention the dance becuase he might have danced with other girls to... its a guy thing
2006-09-17 11:14:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He knows who he danced with and no it is not too formal to talk to him at school.
You must be shy.
I think you should say hello whenever you see him.
Let's see what happens.
2006-09-17 11:14:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him if you like him. Don't lose this chance! Not all guys make the first move!
2006-09-17 11:11:51 · answer #9 · answered by Victoria 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Totally! When you go up to him, say, wern't yu that boy i danced with at the dance...... and continue from there!GL! (Good Luck!!!)
2006-09-17 11:12:23 · answer #10 · answered by silvana 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋