i have a problem with jealosy, my wifes work has invited my wife to a work function with alcohol, and because of where it is it is going to be a stay over night. iam furious with this, both with my wifes work for the disrespect and anxiety they have put on me and my wife for letting me go through it. i wittnessed time and time again trouble both in relationships where alcohol is involved and observing friends under the influence it can lead to terrible consequences no matter how good we think we are. i've read on the net how to overcome jealousy, but the question is do i want to!i have a real moral issue with this! i dont stop my wife spending nights with girlfriends. but going to a booze up on her own and spending the night i'm freaking. lets face it who of us on this earth can fully be trusted when alcohol has worn at our common sense and our self disipline. idont want to be a controlling freak does that mean i end this knowing i cant rise up against this, to ease her suffering!
2006-09-14
04:47:46
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Marriage & Divorce