where have all the good guys gone? im in some sort of a slump and have been for the past 2 years and i dunno what to do at this point...anyone have some advice..
2006-09-14 04:43:25 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I found mine when i wasn't looking, i stopped by my brothers body shop and he was just sitting there. I had just moved back to my home town after a divorce and we became friends, then good friends, then lovers, we've been married now for over 20 yrs. good luck, maybe you should stop looking and just let it happen!
2006-09-14 04:47:44 · answer #1 · answered by cinderjo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just keep on being yourself. & maybe work on yourself... get to know yourself. MAKE YOU YOUR NUMBER ONE PRIORITY RIGHT NOW. I know that may sound cheesy... But I think all HAPPY women do this once in a while. I know I have, and I am right now. Im making myself a better person by getting a degree, and taking care of myself. YES... Im married, but I TAKE CARE OF ME! Men will see how you are self sustaining and want you like no other... the good men want the girls who are independent of all others. The ones they have to work for. Good luck.
2006-09-14 04:45:53 · answer #2 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not easy. I dated a lot of players and flat out jerks before I met my fiance. It's frustrating at times, but you'll find one when you're not looking.
As I was told when I was going through all the crap with the jerk guys - You have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince.
2006-09-14 04:48:41 · answer #3 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep looking and don't settle for someone your not totally satisfied unless your just looking for a one night stand. There are plenty of guys around maybe not in the local area but that is what they have the internet for so you can have choices and investigate to find the one your looking for
2006-09-14 04:47:00 · answer #4 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The good guys are out there.
Most girls can't seem to find one because they're too busy dating the abusive unemployed alcoholic 'bad boys' that they're CERTAIN they can change into a nice guy.
2006-09-14 04:52:28 · answer #5 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get up get yourself out of the house get a makeover and start living your life for you. when it is time for you to run into MR. RIGHT you will. be happy with yourself first and that good man will soon follow
2006-09-14 04:52:04 · answer #6 · answered by ms1choc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good guys can be anywhere - you just have to sort through the crap at first. Go out to parties, bars, etc. You can also meet them at the supermarket, sporting events, skiing or snowboarding...
They are out there. It's just harder to find them.
2006-09-14 04:44:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Pray and be patient. You will meet your match one day.
Don't rush and give yourself to men because you want to be in a relationship.
" Better be alone than badly accompanied".
2006-09-14 04:54:37 · answer #8 · answered by Rosita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying about it so much..
Maybe reconsider what "good guys" are?
The harder you search.. the longer it takes to find the truely "perfect" person for you, then again that's just my belief.
Goodluck
- XnS-Ozh@hotmail.com / Sean
2006-09-14 04:49:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good man is hard to find, but a hard man is good to find....keep looking, they're out there somewhere! (they're just really hard to spot in the throngs of other men)
2006-09-14 04:47:06 · answer #10 · answered by chartneck 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋