Ok so i am the type of girl that every man dreams.. well not every man.. but too many to count. Im 22 and want nothing to do with a serious relationship. At any givin time i have 2 guys that im messin with. And i really dont care how many females they talk to, as long as when im around im NUMBER 1.
I want to know how men feel about this?
And how women feel about this?
However yall feel will not change me and the way i handle my business im just curious. My men love it.
2006-09-14 04:39:49 · 31 answers · asked by misskaykai 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The truth of the matter is most guy's can't handle it, they want to be the one, the only one, they want their cake and eat it too. But actually that is their problem, it is your life and your way, and I am sure your enjoying the sex a lot, maybe it is something you need more than real love, not my business, I would just say one more thing, one day something will happen, the right guy will come along and you will flip, just pray he then feels the same about you, then all the others will me meaningless, last comment just be careful, of a couple of things, the guy's that can't handle it and be aware there are a lot of things out there, that are very dangerous, not only aids but a lot of venerial disease, so stay healthy and good luck in the future, sounds like your having a blast and why not! Oh and forget the women, except for your close friend or friends who understand, the others will put you in the slut catagory, but pay no attention to them, again your way or the highway!
2006-09-14 04:42:40 · answer #1 · answered by Michael 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Your men love it bc they can use you for sex and not have to invest anything else into it. They don't respect you, they probably talk about you and call you a whore behind your back, but if you're cool with that, then carry on. Women probably feel sorry for you and don't respect you much either. If you don't want a serious relationship right now, that's fine. But sleeping around is just degrading to yourself. And when you do want a serious relationship, good luck finding a guy who takes you seriously with the reputation you probably have. Have a great day.
2006-09-14 11:54:52 · answer #2 · answered by Yen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To each its own, right? As long as you are comfortable with it, who am I to judge. I do think you should be giving applause for being up front and honest with the men you are seeing.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-14 11:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The point is you're happy with yourself. As long as you aren't a b*tch to other women, then I say go for it and have your fun. Most likely, you aren't telling these guys you love them and want to marry them. You both have fun and no one gets hurt. So who cares. I can't stand to see a girl on here that seems to find herself above all other females. But your question doesn't make you seem that way, so enjoy yourself and don't worry about what anyone says as long as you are okay with you....
2006-09-14 11:45:49 · answer #4 · answered by shynomore 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's your life. So go out and do whatever you want. However be careful of STDs. Some, such as HPV which may cause cervical cancer, can be contracted even when using a condom. And most of the time you never know you have it until it's too late. I'm speaking from experience. Please be careful.
2006-09-14 11:46:22 · answer #5 · answered by SimpleGurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is the way it should be,if a man is out with you I think he should be with you and not trying to hook up with someone else while he is with you even though you want nothing serious. And if he wants to be with someone else or bulge his eyes out at other chicks he sould do that when you are not with him. Is that fair.
2006-09-14 11:46:34 · answer #6 · answered by Iceman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course the men will love you, but you're not working on a very good reputation. Do what you want and have fun, though. You're not married, and you have no children. Go girl!
2006-09-14 11:42:43 · answer #7 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that the only thing that would make you better is if you were bi. Then you would be a dream girl. And that you like to share with your gf.
You sound like you know what you want and are getting it.
2006-09-14 12:08:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're not even close to every man's dream. Maybe every man's one night stand.
I feel you're cheap, but hell if you're offering I'd use ya for a night
2006-09-14 11:43:37 · answer #9 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't see anything wrong with it considering I do the same thing and i'm 24. When i'm ready for a serious relationship then i'll stick with one guy. Right now i'm happy just having "friends".
2006-09-14 11:43:13 · answer #10 · answered by brandymcclain23 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋