Family & Relationships - 9 September 2006

Yeah, what's the best way to cope? I like both of them, but I can't stand seeing them together. I've quietly distanced myself, on good-terms, but is there anything I can do to help myself heal? Being near them makes me either very depressed or very jealous. I guess I should add more details. I confessed my feelings for her, she doesn't love me(she loves him...I heard them making out, but she insists they AREN'T together...and then implied earlier they are). We weren't going out before...we were just friends, except I've had feelings for her for a while. I'm painfully shy and extremely indecisive, the quiet-romantic type, really. Updated with better description for better relevance in answers...thank you for answering!

2006-09-09 19:32:45 · 6 answers · asked by Elminster 6 in Singles & Dating

Because life is too short ,I want to live hopefully,so I want to set a target in my life,and you?

2006-09-09 19:30:43 · 9 answers · asked by li y 2 in Singles & Dating

i was with my ex for 5 years then he broke up with me. Its been 1 year since we broke up and I think im fine but when he starts talking to me i get all happy but all of a sudden he stops talking to me it hurts so much i spend so many nights crying. I dnt know wat to do anymore.

2006-09-09 19:29:29 · 24 answers · asked by aka ren from ren and stimpy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

the looks, the style, the modesty , the sexyness.... what would make guys turn head over heels for a girl??

2006-09-09 19:29:20 · 22 answers · asked by lovegal 1 in Singles & Dating

Why cant people work to keep the family together like they did years ago, divorce causes so much pain, to children and families in and out laws it effects everyone is it worth it ??

2006-09-09 19:28:23 · 14 answers · asked by seniorcaredallas@yahoo.com 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-09 19:27:56 · 3 answers · asked by Wishful Writer 3 in Marriage & Divorce

but i am not actualy i have many female friends .
i like them as friends . i love chetna very much .
whenever she sees me she runs away from there she is scared of me . what is there in my face that makes her scare .one frend of mine told me that even she likes me . but if she loves me why is she scared of me her . i am the most handsome guy in college . i have got the award for the most handsome guy in college for continously 3 years . all girls are behind me and i am behind her . what to do . i really love her . i will die without her . help pls for god sake
because i have come in this world only 4 her .

2006-09-09 19:27:07 · 14 answers · asked by rahul m 1 in Singles & Dating

"Dump the jerk"-sort of response, fine, but why don't you move on to the next question?
Else, read on. Assume you are me: 42 years old reasonably intelligent, reasonably attractive, reasonably emotional woman. Your mum is dying. It is quite unexpected but very clear.
You are visiting back home with the children for one week, to be with mum. Husband happens to visit the town for work and lets you know he is going out for great dinner. You suggest he may want to invite you. He does. Whole dinner takes place with 2 new colleagues. Fine food, ok conversation (your mum is dying, remember). Not a single sign of "I am with you" or "how was your day?" etc. End of evening. About to jump in cab (all 4 going our own way). Hubby finally comes closer for a sort of "good bye kiss" (and possibly "I am with you" stuff??). Mind you, the secret message is: "don't forget to ask for a receipt". This is his way of being with me, not a one off. Otherwise a chap who has qualities. Your reactions? Is it me?

2006-09-09 19:26:58 · 21 answers · asked by Claire 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-09 19:26:53 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok The last time i ran away.. i had the greatest time of my life. I want to leave but not alone. who's with me! my yahoo messanger thing is army_of_the_corn@yahoo.com !!

2006-09-09 19:24:06 · 7 answers · asked by Aleks 1 in Singles & Dating

to much???
I asked a question like this a few minutes ago called to hard lline and an answer was given that made me want to ask this one.


Situation is this... He had an affair and moved out but says he still loves me but is not ready to move back in and be a family. We have a child. I still love him think hes worth loving in spite of all that has happened. is that right or wrong?

2006-09-09 19:22:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im 25 years old trying to move on . Run a tree service buisness, busy but not satisfied. Whats up? What else does life have to offer?

2006-09-09 19:21:50 · 17 answers · asked by Jason H 2 in Singles & Dating

i am someone who less spoken.how to maintain good relationship between colleagues?sometimes i feel if talk too much,people might be do not like

2006-09-09 19:21:49 · 6 answers · asked by jessy 3 in Friends

Ignore the icicles.

2006-09-09 19:21:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

people are saying its more fun to go to homecoming with a group of friends other than a date what do u think?

2006-09-09 19:20:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a victum of abuse..... The guy, wont leave me alone.. I wish I could bounce out of this state and him never find me again... He always blames me for things he's done wrong and denies everything. He has a major drinking problem.. (An all day thing sometimes) He'll call me and say he'll never do it again, then the same sh*tty circle.. I feel like Im going insane... Anyone have exp in this situation? Help needed

2006-09-09 19:20:10 · 24 answers · asked by Tiffany A 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-09 19:19:57 · 11 answers · asked by lilcoolj7706 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

And Why?

2006-09-09 19:19:55 · 19 answers · asked by Guy w/ Answers 4 in Singles & Dating

i like sex and fun on the net. How do i search a partner who likes the same. Specially a female.

2006-09-09 19:19:33 · 6 answers · asked by Boyuk 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this girl alot but i dont kno if she likes me wat should i do because i dont wanna embarres myself askin her if she likes me

2006-09-09 19:18:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

describe your perfect girlfriend

2006-09-09 19:18:30 · 5 answers · asked by su 1 in Singles & Dating

it is meg hallesy.

2006-09-09 19:18:15 · 6 answers · asked by meg hallesy 1 in Singles & Dating

theres this guy that i met at worlds of fun this summer
he's really cute and sweet
i had no idea that he was switching to my school this year
but he happened to end up being in one of my classes
i talk to him every day
and i feel like i've known him all my life
i want to ask him out
but i have a fear of rejection
what should i do?

2006-09-09 19:17:17 · 17 answers · asked by chelseaoyesums 2 in Singles & Dating

Just wondering .... remember both are timeless!

2006-09-09 19:16:36 · 2 answers · asked by Shawn T 1 in Friends

A friend of mine has just turned 18 (last month) and she's fallen for a guy who is 15 (almost 16). The guy too seems really interested, and is actually the one making the moves!

I know that she isn't really into a full on sexual relationship but do you think this is still wrong? What advice should i give her about this?

2006-09-09 19:16:00 · 22 answers · asked by EcXeSSive ConSUmptiON 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

We've been together for over 3.5 years, and we got invited to a wedding for a friend of mine from HS. I haven't been super close to her, and he has never met her. What is the big deal, we go to a wedding?

2006-09-09 19:15:48 · 10 answers · asked by boston77gal 2 in Weddings

2006-09-09 19:14:59 · 16 answers · asked by naruto u 2 in Singles & Dating

I know most of her likes and dislikes. The reason I hadnt popped the question when she was single is because I get incredibly nervous and get scared of asking her. Her best friend hates because I once insulted her. Im not sure about this but every time she has seen me looking at her she smiles at me.

2006-09-09 19:14:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous 1 in Singles & Dating

why do i keep falling back to the same pattern my family is drama and my husband is always warning me to stay away from them,but i can't help to always get a week spott for them i'm talking about my one brother and my sister and sister in law and my 17 year old daughter who i especially always get shitted on by!i feel like disowning all of them none of them get along with eachother and as soon as i'm back in there lives there bringing me in there...drama i'm now 35 and soooo tired of it,is it wrong to walk away from my family untill they can grow up i have enough stresses and anxiety's as it is wright now my drs. been trying different meds on me which i refuse to take because i want to deal with this drugless.my 17 year old daughter started cussing me out already as soon as i broke down and gave her my new # what the hell is that?please help what would you do,if your marriage was a stake and you had a four year iold daughter that you don't want seeing drama?

2006-09-09 19:14:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

when her boyfriend or husband doesn't listen when she talks.

Should she thank God that she is in a relationship with an intelligent masculine man rather than one of these pansy guys with whom women actually are equal?

2006-09-09 19:13:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce