when her boyfriend or husband doesn't listen when she talks.
Should she thank God that she is in a relationship with an intelligent masculine man rather than one of these pansy guys with whom women actually are equal?
2006-09-09 19:13:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ooooooohh!!!! ROYPHIL45 is angling hard for those best answer points.
2006-09-09 19:19:12 · update #1
UhOh, ROYPHIL345, I think HERETICEVE may want those best answer points pretty badly too.
2006-09-09 19:20:16 · update #2
Oh Goody goody. These are very good answers, and I was just trying to be a smart ***.
Well Damn! Thats no fun.
2006-09-09 19:21:25 · update #3
My friend, it is a very bad experience when you talk and no one listens and if it is ur boyfriend or a husband, then I wud say it is a bad luck. U r being taken for granted or being underestimated( sorry 2 hurt u but that is the truth). But u can turn it into a gud luck, if u can get out of such a relationship. There is no point getting hurt everyday becoz it is really the worst feeling on this planet to be treated like this by the one you love.
2006-09-09 19:19:33 · answer #1 · answered by Mooch 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She should thank God. Also, she should closely examine exactly what it is she talks on and on about....is it really important material? REALLY important? Or is it blah blah blah so and so said blah blah blah mow the lawn blah? If so, then try to keep future conversations to the point and meaningful, and steer clear of endless emotional drama. It also may be that he IS listening, but because women and men 'listen' different ways, the woman may not think he's really paying attention. Women like to face each other and make eye contact. Men don't.
2006-09-10 02:18:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that the man is meant to be the leader in a relationship. I also believe that not considering what the woman has to say is a foolish, disrespectful, unloving and ineffective style of leadership.
A fearful man will try to dominate a woman into submission by making her feel bad about herself. It will not work for long, especially these days.
A confident man will earn a woman's respect and trust in his leadership. This will get stronger as time goes on.
2006-09-10 02:18:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd rather have the pansy guy who listens to me than the masculine man who treats me like I'm not there.
2006-09-10 02:16:40 · answer #4 · answered by Bunny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She should try to make him understand that talking is not a womanly thing, but rather a humanly thing! talking is communicating, and listening is caring, but most men do not like that because they have some things to hide.
Any smart man/woman know that those who do not listen do not care and those who do not talk have things to hide.
2006-09-10 02:19:22 · answer #5 · answered by rinah 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally prefer someone with whom I can communicate with and attempts to understand where I'm coming from. I really hate talking to a wall.
2006-09-10 03:16:44 · answer #6 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SECRET....LETTING YOU IN ON THIS....NEVER SPEAK DIRECTLY TO THEM...THEY DO NOT LISTEN EYE TO EYE...IT IS A GUY THING...THEY LISTEN TO MEN EYE TO EYE BUT NOT WOMEN...STAND BESIDE HIM FACING THE SAME DIRECTIONS LOOKING AT SOMETHING...DO A TEST...SAY SOMETHING...ANYTHING...BY HIS SIDE....LATER ASK HIM IF HE REMEMBERS WHAT YOU TOLD HIM WHILE YOU WERE OUT THERE EARLIER LOOKING AT THAT THING YOU WERE LOOKING AT...AND IF HE DOES NOT REMEMBER...THAT'S OK...SAY OH, NEVER MIND....THEN WHEN HE IS STANDING FACING SOMETHING ELSE...STAND ON HIS OTHER SIDE AND WHILE STANDING NEXT TO HIM SAY SOMETHING...ANYTHING...AND DO THE SAME THING LATER AND ASK HIM IF HE REMEMBERS YOU TELLING HIM SOMETHING EARLIER...IF HE DOES REMEMBER YOU WILL KNOW WHICH EAR HE LISTENS WITH AND FOR NOW ON YOU KNOW TO STAND NEXT TO YOUR MAN IF YOU WANT TO BE HEARD...MEN FIND IT LESS INTIMIDATING AND WILL LISTEN WHEN YOU ARE BESIDE THEM....MAYBE IT IS AN ADAM AND EVE THING WHO KNOWS ...PROBABLY JUST AN EGO THING...BUT YOU KNOW THE SECRET....SHARE IT WITH YOUR WOMEN FOLK...AND SEE IF THEY AGREE!
2006-09-10 03:11:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should cheat on him, then see if she has his attention now.
2006-09-10 02:17:18 · answer #8 · answered by browneyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The former. If she doesn't like it, dump her. She wants a girlie man.
2006-09-10 02:15:51 · answer #9 · answered by want it bad 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
well,she'd rather not to talk and yes be thankful!!!
2006-09-10 02:28:44 · answer #10 · answered by Musty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋