A friend of mine has just turned 18 (last month) and she's fallen for a guy who is 15 (almost 16). The guy too seems really interested, and is actually the one making the moves!
I know that she isn't really into a full on sexual relationship but do you think this is still wrong? What advice should i give her about this?
2006-09-09 19:16:00 · 22 answers · asked by EcXeSSive ConSUmptiON 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Wow... didn't realise how quickly people reply!
More details? When i met the guy i thought he was 17/18 seriously, he looks heaps older and we were both shocked at how young he was. He acts really mature, he hung around my mate (18) me (18) and my other mate (19) and got along really well.
The immaturity hasn't shown yet, i know they hav done some sexual stuff but not all the way.
Btw... this is in Australia
2006-09-09 19:38:37 · update #1
i think she can make her own decisions.. i mean she is18 so she should know if a relationship is right or not... cause love is love age is just numbers...but if SHE thinks its right and she is happy nobody else should matter but the two of them... so if she is happy as well as he is then i say GO FOR IT
2006-09-09 19:38:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well women usually mature faster than boys. A 15 yr old boy has a mind of a 12 year old boy. An 18 year old girl has a mind of a 21 year old so go figure...
I think that if it was the other way around it would be passable. In this case, I think the 15 year old is still immature for an 18 year old.
She should look for an older man or someone her age. What's she doing with "jailbait?"
2006-09-09 19:17:38 · answer #2 · answered by zebo007 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It can very depending on were you live but this is border line illegal never the less. 16 and 18 depending on the relationship may not be illegal but I think 15 and 18 aways is. You can search for the laws in your area and that is one of the reasons I cannot give my full opinion. Me myself I do not think that there is anything wrong with those ages at all. But then again I am not a judge.
2006-09-09 19:19:55 · answer #3 · answered by SummerRain Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wen i was 17 i was dating a 14 year old we dated untill i was 18 we just made sure that it was ok with his parents the after him i was dating a 16 year old also made sure it was ok with his parents and i have always dated guys younger than me people say i look younger and all my friends that are guys are in there 20's so hun age is just a number but tell your friend to talk to his parents first im sure it will b ok for some reason it diffrent when the guy is younger tell her good luck
2006-09-09 19:27:26 · answer #4 · answered by Jeannie T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 13:03:52 · answer #5 · answered by vanderbilt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's wrong I was in that situation but different position I was 14 the guy was 18 and I was still a virgin the guy and I had no sexual relationship till I turned 17 he respected me for many years things didn't work out between me and him we ended up breaking up after a few years later but it doesn't mean it will happen to her if I were you I would just let it go the advice you can give her is make sure she's thought about this and if she truly wants this and to wait on the sexual relationship till she's truly ready
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2006-09-09 19:28:59 · answer #6 · answered by blondeqtwitanicebooty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I knew someone exactly the same situation. I just thought it wasn't cool, but thats a whole different story......anyway. So, i guess its not really wrong.....but should be cautious due to age difference. The person I know, he dumped her because she didn't match personality wise with his.
Best advise if your not comfortable or parents may disagree with either one....then its best to stay as friends and wait a couple of years later.
Good luck!
2006-09-09 21:44:53 · answer #7 · answered by cool_dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It IS illegal...and of course the boy would be moving in. He has an 18 year old, a GROWN woman whos interested in him. He's not mature yet, he'll just brag to his friends and shell be hurt. She'd better leave him alone, because that would be stat. rape if they had sex! (im saying this, but im 16 and my bf's 20 so same thing, just vice versa)
2006-09-09 19:20:33 · answer #8 · answered by SEXiiNESS_2 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her that one benefit may be the fact that she won't have to pay rent for awhile....that is, when his parents call the cops and she goes to jail! By the way, the boy is 15 and she says they are not having sex?? Ya right!! They're going at it like there's no tomorrow!!
2006-09-09 19:35:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Idiotic answers here. IT IS NOT ILLEGAL IF THEY ARE NOT HAVING SEX! Geez people need to get a life. The guy is almost 16. 2 years age difference, big deal.
2006-09-09 19:27:57 · answer #10 · answered by Jon 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋