I had been divorced for two years and met one loser after another and suddenly I met a man who finally treated my with respect and attention that I have never gotten before. Once things were going strong, he wanted to take it to another level of seriousness but before doing so he had to clear the air. About 10 years ago he was convicted of a sex crime. He has gone to jail, undergone psychotherapy and his therapist said that he is ready to date and has successfully dealt with the anger and other issues. All I know, is that I laugh with him, share with him, and enjoy our friendship, but am not sure if I will ever be able to get past his offense, so I am keeping my distance romantically and am dating other men again, but I keep in touch with him as he understands me like no other man. In order for me to accept him as a boyfriend, would I have to understand what made him go off the deep end like that? If he has managed his demons, does it matter? I asked this yesterday, but need clarity
2006-08-31
13:20:05
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