There is a girl i like and she likes me but i am afraid that when we start going out, i am going to run out of things to say to her and things to talk about and she'll think im just a boring peon tht has no life. i really like this girl but how can i turn a small sweet shrelationship into one that will be longterm like from 9 months on up? (mind u that im a teenager in high school)
2006-08-31 13:21:06 · 11 answers · asked by Joe S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you run out of things to say to her, then your not really meant for each other anyway. You'll go to movies, ball games, bowling, out to eat, mini golf, etc.... you won't get bored. Plus, at your age your to young to be tied down for very long.
A good way to start your relationship is for a BUNCH of friends go out to a game or our for ice cream. That way it's not to awkward.
Good luck, make the most out of the time you have with family and friends, and always be respectful. You'll do fine.
2006-08-31 13:27:08 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Conversations come natural. You will always have things to talk about because everyday is eventful. There are times you will just want to spend time together. I started out just like you and now I am still talking to my high school sweetheart 38 years later and I am still not bored.
2006-08-31 20:30:17 · answer #2 · answered by Just Bein' Me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
could always try the question game. Me and my girlfriend do it all the time. Just ask each other questions. Take turns. try her past, what she is doing now, what she thinks about current events, her favorite things, if she wants to go to college and where. Stuff like that
2006-08-31 20:28:13 · answer #3 · answered by Steveo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay spontaneous! Do things that she likes and trade off. Don't try and control the relationship, listen and laugh with each other as well as at each other! Have fun!!! Good luck!
2006-08-31 20:29:23 · answer #4 · answered by Dezec 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lol, nice, and unless you know her deep thoughts, and secrets about things, then you wont run out of things to say. Just do your best and you should get a decent relationship... crap in, crap out you know?
Hope you get some good answers man.
2006-08-31 20:23:21 · answer #5 · answered by Matt M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahhhh... thats so cute =] well... if you both really like each other than you just talk when you are boyfriend and girlfriend... i can tell you want more than just a physical relationship which is really good and the girl will like that... =] you guys will keep learning new stuff about each other... you will become like friends... but more you know what i mean....just be yourself....
2006-08-31 20:35:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
communication. you both need to talk to each other . not just you doing the most talking. find out what she likes and what she likes to do. suggest you and her do some of the things you both like doing .
2006-08-31 20:33:22 · answer #7 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be spontaneous, go out somewher eu haven't been before, leave something in their mailbox.. slip a note under the door, or just show up on the doorstep... step up the physicalness or just show up unexpected, it can b awesome
2006-08-31 20:24:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear you need to think new ideas and new fantasies when you see any movie just pick things that is fascinating plan extraordinary situations and you will enjoy.
bye,
take care
2006-08-31 20:32:01 · answer #9 · answered by deep_desire79 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it just happens... like when you hang out with each other n make up some jokes n everything...
2006-08-31 20:23:15 · answer #10 · answered by babi_blonde_101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋