i have been seeing my boyfriend for the last 2 months, and i know its not been a long time, but the fact of the matter is, he has een telling me for the last month or so that he loves me and then last night turned around and said he doesnt know if he loves me or not! whats going on?
he says he still wants to be with me ut am getting really paranoid now that we are gonna break up!
2006-08-31 13:18:14 · 22 answers · asked by heyho 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont get me wrong - im not trying to be serious with him - quite the opposite! i really like the guy but all i wanna know is where i stand. he told me when he first said he loves me that he wouldnt say it if he didnt mean it - so why have things changed? im ok with the fact that he may not love me yet, after all 2 months is just the beginning of a relationship - i was just wondering does he, or doesnt he?!!!
2006-08-31 13:27:08 · update #1
he doesn't know what he wants or what he feels. Maybe he feels the relationship is moving a bit too fast for him, and he is feeling trapped or paranoid. After all, you have only been seeing each other for 2 months, not 2 years. Give it some time. Eventually you will have the answer. And if you end up breaking-up, for certain you will have the answer to your question.
2006-08-31 13:22:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMGOSH...I have wasted almost the last 2 yrs of my life on a guy who did the same thing, there were even marriage propsals. I finally got some backbone and stood up for myself. I deserve more and I want to find the type of person who can love, adore and respect me. I have several dates and am not looking back! Do the same, or you might end up like me...2 yrs older!!!!
2006-08-31 20:24:06 · answer #2 · answered by Carrie H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think hes getting confused with really really liking you and loving you. its too soon to fall in love after only 2 months. Leave all the serious stuff for later in your relationship and just have some fun!
2006-08-31 20:24:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it some time. Ask him what changed and see if you are okay with what he tells you. Guys are really dumb sometimes when it comes to relationships and he could just be scared that things are more serious than he wants them to be. Decide if you really like him to. But mostly just try and talk to him to see what the heck he's thinking.
2006-08-31 20:23:18 · answer #4 · answered by hideemosquito 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have some more confidence in yourself. There are millions of people on the planet and many available for you.
Ask him what he means. If he wants to be with your for the wrong reasons, don't wait for his decision, leave him and find someone who loves you just the way you are. He's out there and there's not just one.
2006-08-31 20:23:50 · answer #5 · answered by nomadsis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is confused. Don`t take him so seriously this early in the relationship as infatuation can do very funny things to a fella. Don`t fret, listen to him and don`t judge and DON`T automatically think you are going to break up because he`s probably trying to straighten himself out in his own mind for you.
Be strong, don`t panic and above all, don`t worry. All will out in the end.
2006-08-31 20:38:50 · answer #6 · answered by dnlrawson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being so paranoid... just relax... love is a strong word for 2 months into a relationship... if he said it before he prob had strong feelings for u then... at least if he told u he isn't sure then at least he's being honest
2006-08-31 20:23:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as much as i would say it, I'm thinking he's going t break up with you. that's okay though, I'm sure ur a great person and he's making a mistake! You'll bounce back. You have your whole life ahead of!
2006-08-31 20:26:48 · answer #8 · answered by EMBER A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't wait at all he not serious get out there and get a life. Look for a good looking guy and enjoy.
bye bye
2006-09-04 08:51:49 · answer #9 · answered by tomapepe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not after 2 months he doesn't. maybe he said it earlier because he thought you'd want to hear it, now realises it was a daft thing to say
possibly.
2006-09-02 09:40:28 · answer #10 · answered by JAMES T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋