Family & Relationships - 29 August 2006

my partner and i love each other very much but we have decided to break up because his family doesnt like me and it is causing alot of heart ache.
we both feel very confused about our decition. we have made the decition with our heads and not our hearts. he has told me that he doesnt want to leave me but he doesnt want to loose his family eighther and i understand the horrible situation he is in but i need him to give me a straight answer.
so i suppose im saying i need him to tell me that he loves me enough to back me up no matter what or that he honestly doesnt think our relationship is worth the risk, i need to know eighther way but he cant tell me.
should i make the decition my self. do you think that by him not making a chiose that really he has chosen his family, and cant tell me?
we are still in the same house at the moment until he finds somewhere else to live and it hurts, thats why i need it to be more cut and dry so i can except the situation and move on with my life.

2006-08-29 10:29:15 · 9 answers · asked by shandy 1 in Family

2006-08-29 10:28:43 · 15 answers · asked by Cool Dude 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

He will be in prison for 8 years.

2006-08-29 10:28:39 · 15 answers · asked by Kathy C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

not so fresh, shall we say? I ask because I remember this guy I dated who loved to go down on a woman who had not showered yet that day. Now my current b.f likes a fresh peach. Personaly I like him to be showered also. Do you shower before? If you don't do you expet her to go down on you? 10 pts for the best or funniest answer.

2006-08-29 10:28:35 · 13 answers · asked by BadAdvice 3 in Singles & Dating

One of them i talked to all summmer, she looks ok and i see her all the time. Plus we're great friends.

The other i dont see to often and is extremely hott but, when we do see each othe we have great chemistry.

Which do i choose

2006-08-29 10:28:21 · 10 answers · asked by 09grad 2 in Singles & Dating

How is it that my boyfriend says I am being insecure and that he is not cheating and I should trust him when he talks to girls all day/night on the phone, messenger, on myspace, they leave mesg. about they miss him and need to see him they send him text mesg all day and night and when I check his phone he sending this girl, that he said he was not talking to anymore a mesg that says I get off at 1 and I will call you then. And that is not even the time he is supposed to get off.

2006-08-29 10:28:07 · 7 answers · asked by soul child 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay so i asked out a guy about a year ago. he said no because we'd never talked. it was really stupid of me. after that he avoided me. i think we were both too young anyways.... but now... its different. he starts talking to me about really random things, after a year of avoiding me. hes DOES talk to people a lot.

but when im near him, he talks louder and reveals information like his classes and lunch period. also, after our classes i was at my locker and he at his (its near mine) and this guy was helping me and a friend and i was being all nice to the guy helping and stuff and im like "thank you!!" and my friends like "Thanks." and then hes (the guy the whole question is about) like "thank you" and he wasn't even in the conversation.

he does weird things like that a lot around me. he looks at me and when i catch him he looks away quickly and acts annoyed, except i can tell he isn't.

whats going through his mind? what should i do? BTW, im not asking him out again!

2006-08-29 10:27:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My family does not like her and have essentially caused her to not want to be with me anymore. She says she can't love someone who's family does not accept her. We are both in our mid thirties and both divorced. I really care about her and know we can be happy as our only arguments revolve around my family. Please help.

2006-08-29 10:27:13 · 10 answers · asked by ramready71 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my father in laws b-day is coming up and i dont know what to get him. he likes suduko,golfing,bowling and he drives a train for a living. he is kind of picky so i really dont know what to get him and he has a bad back so i cant take him to really do anything please help!! Oh yeah and dont say "buy him a stripper"!!

2006-08-29 10:26:36 · 10 answers · asked by veggiemama 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

be honest now...besides love.....what is the man's role.,...

2006-08-29 10:26:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She has 5 dogs, 3 cats, 3 guienea pigs, a rabbit, 3 parakeets, and 2 doves.

2006-08-29 10:24:56 · 29 answers · asked by greg62677 1 in Singles & Dating

A year ago, I suffered from anxiety and my friend could not understand why it was so hard to leave the house. Well since then he has pronounced me as dead to him. I know that he has always been a moody individual and I have known him well over ten years. I honestly do not want to loose a friendship from ten years ago. We have had our moments when we did not talk for a couple of years. However, I feel like he refused to hear my reasoning and think it isn't fair. Any suggestions. ..

2006-08-29 10:24:48 · 5 answers · asked by pattiof 4 in Friends

Do you worry more about the wedding itself or life after the wedding. I've often seen people on talk shows talking about how they didn't know life would be like this after the wedding. They thought everything would just go perfectly. I think people should be preparing more for their future together, than the wedding. I mean which is more important of the two.

2006-08-29 10:24:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If you ask for somone's number or for a date and that person declines, how should you react? Obviously, you don't want to start yelling or crying, so what would be the best thing to say?

2006-08-29 10:24:08 · 9 answers · asked by feedazombie 1 in Singles & Dating

weve been friendly for a year and im sorta shy so i dont know how to know if she really wants to go out with me and how do i ask

2006-08-29 10:24:07 · 5 answers · asked by Sox Fan 93 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a cousin that has ruined another family members marrige. and now she seems to be trying to ruin mine. I have told her several times to leave us alone but it seems like every few months she starts again. what should i do?

2006-08-29 10:23:58 · 22 answers · asked by lindsay g 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 28 yrs old married woman, having two kids, living with in-laws, having loving and caring husband who works and I used to be at home for look after kids. I am very friendly and often mix up very quickly with others. Then I developed feelings for other men(it can be any). As they feel that I had feelings for them, they want to start relationship or whatever I don't know because I did not go any further, then I starting avoiding them.
I am fed up with this habbit. but throughout my life I had no affair, never talk dirty or anything with any men, never go outside or call anybody. but still having this problem.
Anybody has any idea what should i do to control myself?
what problem i am suffering from?
how can i overcome this?

2006-08-29 10:23:28 · 21 answers · asked by pretty 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have gone to a couple movies together and he has never held my hand and my hand is right there for him to hold! My friends talk to him and they say that he will hold my hand next time we go to the movies but he never does! His hands are usually shaking near mine so im guessing he is nervious. Next time should I make the first move and hold his hand? And if yes then how do I get near his hand to hold it?

2006-08-29 10:23:25 · 12 answers · asked by Abercrombie Kid 2 in Singles & Dating

is my avatar looking better than the guy in this photo:
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2006-08-29 10:23:08 · 16 answers · asked by James Blond 4 in Singles & Dating

can it be you?

2006-08-29 10:22:04 · 3 answers · asked by GOOGLE ROCKS!!!! 2 in Friends

I knew this girl that liked me and i liked her back for a while, i talked to her online and we hanged out a couple of days ago and everything just seemed to be great. Then we chated the same day we hanged out and everything seemed to be fine too, but the next day she just suddenly changed, she started to give me "short answers" (yes/no/ionno/maybe/etc) so there was no conversation. It's been like this for a couple of days but i have no idea what's the reason (she told me nothing was wrong), i even asked her friends but they told me she seemed normal; i think there's another person she likes... but... could she change her mind from one day to another? Thank you

2006-08-29 10:21:53 · 19 answers · asked by NeedAnswerXD 2 in Singles & Dating

Why is it most men don't know how to eat pu*sy?? I mean seriously all you men out there, why waste her time and yours just fu*king around down there when ya haven't got a clue what your doing? You think a few licks on her clit is want she wants?? WRONG!!!!!! You need to spend time there msaking love to her pus*y with your tongue, caress it taste it play with it till she is screaming, squirting and begging you to f*ck her!!

2006-08-29 10:21:31 · 10 answers · asked by tony 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

im talking to this guy right now. and i know for a fact that hes having sex with anouther girl ( who hes known a lot longer than me) he hasnt told me this himself but his friends have. hes single so i shouldn't expect him to only talk to me, right? when should you draw the line in this kind of situation?

2006-08-29 10:20:59 · 17 answers · asked by oocheerxx 1 in Singles & Dating

i broke up with him on the second day the thing is i didn't feel right dating him he was sweet and stuff but i wasn't sure if i was right did i do the right thing or should i go back with him

2006-08-29 10:20:45 · 10 answers · asked by nmehra18 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-29 10:20:41 · 26 answers · asked by f f 1 in Singles & Dating

In school? on myspace?

2006-08-29 10:20:16 · 12 answers · asked by ? 6 in Friends

2006-08-29 10:20:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You are married with some problems. You have 3 children with your spouse. Two of which are biologically not yours. You love them all the same. At one point your spouse sleeps with the ex. You forgive your spouse and try and move on and honor your Vows. Six months later the person whom your spouse slept with is in the hospital going through a routine operation that suddenly turns serious. Life and death serious. Now your spouse is naturally worried. The children might or might not lose a parent. But now your spouse is at the hospital for the last three days. twelve hours a day. Your spouse tells you that they feel compelled to be there. That to please be understanding. But you have very little inside you to do so. Your still trying to build up your trust for this person. Your spouse. Is it wrong to be angry at this? Considering this is the same person your spouse slept with six months before. Is it wrong to feel nothing for this person whose life is hanging in the balance.

2006-08-29 10:19:53 · 23 answers · asked by Divine_Gesture 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-29 10:19:30 · 14 answers · asked by dersexy 1 in Singles & Dating

what's mean the word for u ?
and where can found it ??
how know is that ture love???
i hope found answer

2006-08-29 10:19:28 · 5 answers · asked by dodo 2 in Other - Family & Relationships