im talking to this guy right now. and i know for a fact that hes having sex with anouther girl ( who hes known a lot longer than me) he hasnt told me this himself but his friends have. hes single so i shouldn't expect him to only talk to me, right? when should you draw the line in this kind of situation?
2006-08-29 10:20:59 · 17 answers · asked by oocheerxx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
(by the way im not having actually having sex with him) should i let him know im aware of whats going on?
2006-08-29 10:34:00 · update #1
well to be honest, why should he? it sounds like you would like to be more than just some one he messes around with, but since you've made it clear it's ok with you that that's all you are, it's hard to blame him. well of course he's a dog, but check your self too, if you really like this guy and want to actualy be with him, you kinda need to make it clear, don't be up set if he doesn't feel the same. it kinda got set up that way from the begining you know? and really, it may hurt that he's doing the same stuff with another girl but you really can't be jealous or feel you have the right to say anything. the only thing you have a right to is to be safe, and make sure you are.
2006-08-29 10:23:26 · answer #1 · answered by cookie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys don't think about relationships until they meet the one they want to marry. He is having fun and you can either go along for the ride or back off he sounds as though he wants it all right now, and guys are like that so expect it.
I have known very few guys to be sensitive to a woman's needs or feelings they just don't understand so don't try to make him understand they think differently than we do.
If you care for him accept him as he is don't try to change him to suit you you will both end up miserable. If you are not sure of your feelings and want more than to be a toy once in awhile then break it off with him, the choice is yours.
2006-08-29 10:27:36 · answer #2 · answered by bonita_cooper2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would draw the line at having sex or sexual activity with another person. Sex should be for exclusive relationships. What happens if there is a STD or the other girl gets pregnant. Do you want to share with someone else? Not me!
2006-08-29 10:24:17 · answer #3 · answered by KO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would expect him to controll him self some what. having sex with anouther girl is going too far. you need to dump this guy now before you become really attached. even though hes not dating her or you hes allready made a comitment to both of you and who knows... there may be more!
2006-08-30 05:12:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its totaly up to you. But just to remember, he is definetly braging that he is screwen, yes I'm sure he uses that word and many other descriptive terms more elaborat in nature wene talken to his friends. screwen two girls at once. And the funny thing is that because he is probably so cocky beleiving that he's the man he probably doesn't even realize that you know whats going on. I would just leave him. Your just going to get your self into an emotional hurt and or catch a disease/bouth.
2006-08-29 10:29:50 · answer #5 · answered by nostridomius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well cutie from the get go is your not with him and your giving into him well he only wants sex from you period. and the other girl is probably going through the same thing you are, why dont you ask the girl? Your not his girlfriend so an line that needs to drawn is around your brain because you easy to use.. wake sweety..
2006-08-29 10:28:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
surely, you will lose a guy's interest after approximately 50 words. i would not propose any factors. remember the previous adage: strikes talk louder than words? undecided how previous you're yet this previous better halves tale is one hundred% genuine. do no longer attempt to tell him you like him, coach him you like him. i'm no longer likely to pretend that i comprehend precisely what's significant to him so i'm able to grant propose there. clothing? nutrition? Womanly reward? actually he likes a variety of. think of of what he loves and in simple terms walk up and say right here you circulate, i admire you and supply it to him. Bam, he won't comprehend what to declare.
2016-10-01 01:35:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
fooling around with two people at the same time is a bit sketchy. especially the screwing around thing. even though you guys aren't steady or anything, you should still know his interactions with other people. tell him you both can be with whoever they want, but if you two are messing around, you should at least know that you are. and let him know if you're uncomfortable with the situation. talking always helps.
2006-08-29 10:24:33 · answer #8 · answered by babygurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have no right to expect him to be true to you if you haven't even committed to dating him exclusively. However, the fact that he's screwing someone and chatting up someone else says an awful lot about the quality of his character. If he does it to her, why wouldn't he do it to you?
2006-08-29 10:25:06 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you cant really get mad at him because you arent really together.Second of all you must be ok with it because your still talking to him and you dont need someone else to tell you when your mad.Third of all,you shouldnt be any mans backhand chick.He knows what hes doing,tell him your not ok with it and if he really wants to talk to you then he'll stop.
2006-08-29 10:31:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋