I have a cousin that has ruined another family members marrige. and now she seems to be trying to ruin mine. I have told her several times to leave us alone but it seems like every few months she starts again. what should i do?
2006-08-29 10:23:58 · 22 answers · asked by lindsay g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First of just because shes blood dont mean nothing. I hate meddling realitives. I would change your number. And if you relly think shes a problem get a restraining order. to drastic.talk to her about it. How is she trying to ruin your marrage? is she a slu trying to steal your husband? or just medeling in your business? I have a problem with one of my cousins shes a realy sluttty and constintly hit on my husband till he had a talk with her.
2006-08-29 10:29:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break off all contact with her. She doesn't seem to care one way or another about your feelings or that you are family so why should you. People who go around trying to destroy others relationships do so because they can't find a happy one of their own and hate the fact that someone else has.
Don't let her do anything to your. Just tell her that you know her game and you & your husband no longer wish to have her in your life until she can learn to accept your marriage and stop meddeling in it.
2006-08-29 10:31:23 · answer #2 · answered by Chaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as usual people are going to say you have to tell her how you feel. although that's good i think the real problem is that she needs a man. i think you should really help her find a man. take her to the local pick up spots. recommend her to somebody. I'm sure you know a lot of guys who are dying to love. help her out! don't ignore her.
2006-08-29 10:29:25 · answer #3 · answered by ShaneA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is it that she does? if she is verbally manipulyzing your family, you need to stop contact with her. dont let any of your immdediate family come in contact with her. tell your husband what she is doing and you two get an action plan! decide together how you want to handle this... whether you want to confront her or just ignore her. either way you need to make a descision together. remember, it's YOUR life, not hers. you can make this work if you truly want to. dont let her control your life.
2006-08-29 10:29:43 · answer #4 · answered by 128333 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your aunt/uncle, perhaps? I don't know your cousin's age, so maybe that wouldn't help.
Find her a boyfriend so she's not bothering you?
Sorry, but I don't have any "bothersome relative", so I don't have any personal stories of how to rid yourself of one.
2006-08-29 10:30:53 · answer #5 · answered by ildjb@sbcglobal.net 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her straight once and for all, tell her to stay out of your life, and get a life of her own. You do not need her in your business. Be firm with her, let her know, in no uncertain terms, you mean what you say. "Stay out of your family business".
2006-08-29 10:32:28 · answer #6 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not knowing what she is doing it is hard to say. I hope you and your husband know to ignore her. If she is going through other family member to undermind you two than remind them that she has done this before.
and remind her when ever needed to stop it
2006-08-29 10:27:34 · answer #7 · answered by G L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remove him or her for good. Don't call and don't go to reunions where he or she will be. Set up quality time with the people you love and immidiate family.
2006-08-29 10:27:11 · answer #8 · answered by Karrien Sim Peters 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start a nasty but plausible rumor and tell the whole family.
2006-08-29 10:27:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
well i would ignor her(kinda like shunning)and get a few other family members in on it!
2006-08-29 10:26:45 · answer #10 · answered by james 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋