Family & Relationships - 23 August 2006

Thanks for taking the time. I have anguished over this for over a year now. How do I know? That is a long story; but suffice to say all the pieces "fell together" before we were married. I am 99.9% sure that something untoward went on, probably for an extended period. While she now dotes on her father (we are both 31) she is clear she was not as close to him before her mother passed. I am loath to bring it up for fear of losing her, at worst, and confirming my worst fears which will mean he is no longer in my life (how could I look at him??) and so less so in hers. Should I talk to a psychologist? Social worker? I have kept this to myself because to speak to anyone who knows me is to speak to someone who knows her and so unacceptable at this, unconfirmed stage. Should I take any action? Or perhaps wait, keep my mouth shut, and wait for this old man of 64 to die? If only her mother was alive I would have at least a first step, I think. Anyway, thats the guts of it. Thanks.

2006-08-23 06:21:43 · 29 answers · asked by MadisonNewlyWed 1 in Family

the drive in ( i follow him around) what should i do should i kill the ***** and the sorry bastard

2006-08-23 06:21:36 · 20 answers · asked by sad bride 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-23 06:20:57 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She quit her job that she had since she was 15, she'll be 24 very soon and moved from the ony area she ever known so that we can live together. She also came here for the opporutnity to work as an aide in the area she is going to school for but I think her sacrifices have been for us and I just want to do something special for her tonight since it was her first day at her new job.

2006-08-23 06:20:42 · 8 answers · asked by tana 1 in Singles & Dating

my girl friend has certain reactions when I kiss her she moves to her side in closer to me like she likes it.but when I get to her lips she says she's nervous. how do I make her like it?

2006-08-23 06:19:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Um some people in the last question are saying that it doesn't indicate anything but I thi it does most males with lager feet always have large and longer ...things... and I think that's true but I've only known a few so I can't conferm but I think u chicks out there have meet many so help out......thanks

2006-08-23 06:19:22 · 7 answers · asked by ray 1 in Friends

I feel very embrassed since i look pretty and am very popular in school (i am an ninth grader.......)

2006-08-23 06:19:18 · 6 answers · asked by Cupid 2 in Singles & Dating

I really like this girl but we rarely talk. The only way i can contact her is by the phone. I want to tell her i like her but it may come as a suprise because we rarely see each other and talk.

What should i do? I mean even if i call her it would be weird because i never do.
Can someone help me here

2006-08-23 06:19:08 · 6 answers · asked by ARt 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-23 06:18:02 · 11 answers · asked by tiffaniee f 1 in Friends

What should i do

2006-08-23 06:16:38 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

why do you have to get a problem off your chest

2006-08-23 06:16:20 · 10 answers · asked by angel 36 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Say something funny or interesting to make me laugh please? I will love you forever if you do. Best answer wins. =]

2006-08-23 06:15:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Email Me(booneniceb@verizon.net)

2006-08-23 06:15:49 · 4 answers · asked by icyhott4urmind 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-23 06:14:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-23 06:13:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so i gave my aim name to some people on this and i dont know them and i asked them to leave me alone and they sad o what someone going to get me and they wouldnt leave me alone i was scared is that normal??

2006-08-23 06:13:38 · 45 answers · asked by princessnikki246 2 in Friends

I keep trying to tell them that soon it is going to become a safety issue when I am out on the streets and driving (if i get to drive i doubt it). All of my friends have one and i am always mooching off of them to use it and people at school make sooooooooo much fun of me. I seriously come home crying sometimes because of the torture kids put me through! what should i do and tell my parents?

2006-08-23 06:13:12 · 24 answers · asked by talldarknsxy101 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a 30 year old divorcing mother. My husband had an affair, and it ripped my heart out.
I went out about 2 months ago, not expecting to meet anybody, just to get myself out of this house. But it happened, a man who I thought was so wonderful, introduced himself to me, and we ended up talking for many hours that night. He asked for my phone number, and he called me the next day, and continued to call me a few times a week, just to see how I was doing. I could really talk to this man. He is older than myself by 20 years, but I didn't care. I felt comfortable with him, and it made me feel good at a time in my life where I feel my worst. I had meant with him a few times, he was always a gentlemen. Two weeks ago, he had me over to his house, and I ended up staying most of the night. I fell for this man fast. Since then he hasn't called me. I tried calling him, but no answer. I just want to know what happend. Is it wrong of me to want an honest explaination from him? I feel hurt again.

2006-08-23 06:12:40 · 8 answers · asked by whocares_3076 1 in Singles & Dating

guys: ok so i have this boyfriend right and broke up with him to go out with someone else. then i relized that i still liked him and last night the last song ever danced to came on and i started crying and last week i tryed talking to him and before i even got to say any thing he cussed me out! please guts how do i get him back please you have to help me!?!

2006-08-23 06:12:11 · 40 answers · asked by batgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

After three pregnancies I'm trying to lose weight. I'm really uncomfortable with how I look, so I'm eating better and am going to start to exercise in 4 weeks (that's when my doctor said it will be okay after giving birth) and I'm really concerned with my health. My problem is now my husband isn't as attractive to me. He's always been heavy, but it hasn't ever bothered me before like it does now. He still eats unhealthy and has no plans to exercise or lose weight, even though he admits he has a weight problem. I still love him because he's a great husband and father. But I'm concerned for his health and I don't get turned on by his looks anymore. I don't know what to do. I don't feel like I can make him lose weight, it has to be his own choice. I'm concerned for our relationship. Is it just my own insecurities with my own body causing this? Or is it that I could have changed my tastes for what I want in a mate? Any advice?

2006-08-23 06:11:55 · 55 answers · asked by mommyem 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi I am a 16 year old girl and my hymen broke when I was having sex with my boyfriend (who is 18). I am going to get a check up soon and I am worried if my gynecologist is going to tell my mom. (She doesn't know that i am not a virgin.) Is the gynecologist supposed to keep this info. confidential? ...If my mom asks my gynecologist whether I have had sex or not, what will the gynecologist tell her? Oh and should i get check-ups every once and a while???
Please help me! Thanks.

2006-08-23 06:11:44 · 13 answers · asked by Marie H 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-23 06:11:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

are there any men out there20 and ove who have a nextel or boost mobile and wanna be chirp buddies,if so u can chirp me at 173*847*10762,my name is nancy

2006-08-23 06:10:46 · 4 answers · asked by Babygirl 2 in Singles & Dating

well we have been friends for almost a year and i really like her. sometimes she will call me just to ask wuts up and then the next day she will be start calling me an idiot and stupid and stuff but then we'll talk and she'll hug me and says she loves me but she and then we wont see eachother for a while and she will say that i was supossed to call her. but she is kinda a flirt and i dont know what to think of and if i should call her or not

wut should i do?

2006-08-23 06:10:40 · 11 answers · asked by on theWaves 3 in Singles & Dating

i want to marry a simple man who is not intrested in sex ,he must be honest and he must love me as iam.if any man is like this what he want in her wife?

2006-08-23 06:09:37 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so the deal is my father met this women on an online dating website and they have been talking. I have never met her or anything & she has 2 daughters. Well he has been saying strange things to me like we are going to make this room her daughters room and that my dog is going to get a new playmate b/c they have a dog. Ok keep in mind noone in my family has met these people. I got suspecious so I was listening in on his convo and she asked how long it would take for them to get married. He said they could do it in 5 min and she liked that idea. She also asked him if they could put there bank accounts together and he AGREED! I know he has not known this women for more than 2 months and they are going to elope and get married WTF! He dated another women for 9 years and did not marry her! I dont understand. How can you marry someone move her in and not even introduce her to the family first. I think that she may be a con-artist. Please tell me what you would do in a situation like that!

2006-08-23 06:08:54 · 25 answers · asked by Lucid_dreams 4 in Family

speak to your ex's family or friends when you're with your new bf? Some say it's tacky, some say it's just being friendly, what do you think?

2006-08-23 06:08:35 · 8 answers · asked by Littlemissy 4 in Friends

Yuh for some reason some girls like guys with big feet, why is that so and is just sexy, or does it indicate anyhting...??
thanks..

2006-08-23 06:08:09 · 16 answers · asked by ray 1 in Friends

my boyfriend cheated on me with another girl for 3 weeks and he said they had sex 6 times he claim it was nothing he said he would not do it again but i just cant seems to get it out my mind am not eating and i cant sleep all i keep thinkin about what he did i give him a next chance but i cant get over it i love him very much i cant lie it hurt me alot i cant really talk to no one like that about it because i dont want no one to talk behind my back i give him a next chance because in the past while we were in school i did some things to and he forgive me so he told me he made a misstake so i forgive him but every time he touches me i cant help but to see him touchin some one else am try to make things work but when he goes way i cant help thinkin thats were he is can some one please help me get thur this

2006-08-23 06:07:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you think about your exes? Do your exes think about you? If you broke up with someone who wanted to marry you, do you think that person ever thinks about you - years after the relationship ended and you've both moved on. I.E.: you're married and he's getting married? Just curious as to what everyone thinks. Wondering if it's true that when you're thinking about someone, they are usually thinking about you, too.

2006-08-23 06:07:02 · 13 answers · asked by Rachel 7 in Marriage & Divorce