guys: ok so i have this boyfriend right and broke up with him to go out with someone else. then i relized that i still liked him and last night the last song ever danced to came on and i started crying and last week i tryed talking to him and before i even got to say any thing he cussed me out! please guts how do i get him back please you have to help me!?!
2006-08-23 06:12:11 · 40 answers · asked by batgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's a tough one.
You might have completely ruined your chances with him.
(Sorry, I know I'm a girl...)
2006-08-23 06:14:33 · answer #1 · answered by Emily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.K. listen girl, I'm never mean answering any one's questions, but this I must answer in this manner...
Step 1.
You messed up, realize it! you just showed him how unreliable and in mature you are by leaving him for some one else. That makes him feel as he is plan B you saw something you liked better; you left him; and now since that did not work out for you, you want him back. SORRY... 4 you
Step 2.
The more you are on his back the less he will want you.
try to talk to him e-mail will be best because he cant interrupt you or leave a letter in the mail box asking for forgiveness by doing this i can promise you nothing but its worth a shot.
THE GRASS MAY LOOK GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE, THAT DOESNT MEAN IT REALLY IS.
2006-08-23 06:32:23 · answer #2 · answered by Social 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, you probably lost this guy's trust when you left. It is difficult enough to trust someone in a relationship to begin with. Having been burned once, it is unlikely he'll ever be able to trust you again. Move on and, next time, think harder before you do that.
2006-08-23 06:19:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not a guy but sorry about the break up thing well if he dosent want to be friends just because you broke up with him to go out with someone else then oh well it is his loss then isnt it just act as if nothing even happened because hes probably just trying to put you down and he is probably jelious just act as if nothing hapened and act happy not sad or mad
2006-08-23 06:16:59 · answer #4 · answered by princessnikki246 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cursed you?! Forget about him! He's no good for you. You're obviously a caring, emotional, loving person ... you can do far better than this Loser. Get off the 'net and go out and let a REAL MAN find you.
2006-08-23 06:15:36 · answer #5 · answered by Tad Dubious 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, hopefully he is smart enough not to take you back... sorry, but you did something extremely selfish and it sounds like he is a smart guy. Don't wanna help you and hope you learned from the experience not to be vicious.
2006-08-24 10:52:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it were me, you would never get me back. not even if i still liked you. its kinda a rule of thumb for me, cause after a first breakup, if you get back together, only bad things can happen. but thats just me, theres a good chance he doest follow that rule. just keep trying i guess, eventually he may talk to you about what you want to say. but remember, your the one who wants him back, so your the one who screwed up, and apologies dont always work. good luck.
2006-08-23 06:16:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You express your desire to get back together and prepare yourself to live with the consequences. It sounds as though he is not interested. You would do well to move on, stop dwelling in the past and find someone to love who will love you back.
2006-08-23 06:14:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow Up
2006-08-23 06:14:57 · answer #9 · answered by aggravatingprick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you screwed up your chances with him. He'll never be able to trust you again no matter what you do or say, so it's best to just leave the situation alone.
2006-08-23 06:29:51 · answer #10 · answered by cam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋