I'm 22 years old. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 and a half years (long time, I know). I've been living with him for 5 of the years. We buckled down and bought a condo last summer and just moved in 4 months ago. Ever since then I've been worried though..
If he asked me to marry him tomorrow, I couldn't say yes. I don't know if it's because I'm not ready to be married, or if it's because I dont want to marry him.
Here's the thing... he treats me really good. We share lots of common interests and values. Family loves him. And most importanly I love him. But is it possible to share all that, and he still not be the one for me? Why can't I shake this feeling?
I'm curious about what its like to be with someone else. This is the only man I've been with in my life. And sometimes I wish I had a chance to just be on my own. Gain some independance. But then I get scared of losing him.
I've been dealing with this for months, and I'm totally stuck. Anyone have any advice?
2006-08-21
18:08:33
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