My family has been extended my whole life. I have developed strong friendships over the years. I have two adult daughters, it goes without saying that they will be a part of my wedding party. As for everyone else, I'm torn. I have sisters who all feel they should be the maid or matron of honor, four of them. One of my sisters said, well "you can have two", but that's it. She takes over everything without even asking me how I feel, or what I want. My fiance and I are now both overwhelmed and having second thoughts. Of course, we're still getting married, but we don't know about having a formal wedding at this point. We're disappointed because we want a blessed ceremony, but we can't deal with everybody elses needs and demands. How can I address this issue without hurting anyone's feelings?
On the flip side of the coin, he has very few guys he feels should stand with him. So, my brother in law (married to my bossy sister), has decided who he should pick. This is to much.
2006-08-18
18:45:45
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