i guess anyone who turned lesbian could help, but how do i know and have i just not found the right guy?
2006-08-18 18:56:27 · 15 answers · asked by yayarea_love 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, why don't you try it and see? There are several females who would be willing to help you out. It's crazy but you should try a threesome and in that moment decide which is more to your liking. From experience, women rule! However I chose to be Bi because I enjoy certain aspects of opposite sex relationships. Either way, you'll never know unless you try. It also depends on how many guys you've been with and your mindset when going into it. Sex is supposed to be fun for everyone, not just something women do to please their man. So you need to learn how to have fun with it. Try starting off with Vibrators and Pornos when you're by yourself.There are also all female pornos. If those turn you on, then you may have found your answer. Happy Hunting!
2006-08-18 19:05:31 · answer #1 · answered by Jazzybinature 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone goes through this period when they r confused if they r attracted to the same sex...wht do u mean when u said u r not comfortable with guys? could be because u have not found the right group of guys to hang out with..its just like in high school when u r comfortable being with certain girls and not the others..attraction and comfort are two different things..so dont jump into conclusion tht u r lesbian
2006-08-19 02:05:12 · answer #2 · answered by M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not a lesbian but i have many friends that are and are bi. maybe you just havent found the right guy, could be bi, or maybe a lesbian. you never know until you try everything. i suggest that you try going out with a girl and if you feel more comfortable try another. it might just be the person you are with too so don't just try to quickly find an answer you'll know over time.
2006-08-19 02:02:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, so you think you might like girls. Let's hope that you would (and could) like both sexes. That is what we call :Friends.: As for the sexual side of it...how do you feel about "liking girls"? Does it upset you or do you feel comfortable within yourself about it? Are you perhaps just "curious" about what it would be like to be with a girl in a sexual way. If that is it....then go for it. If you are really in tuned to your feelings and those around you, you might come across another girl who is just as new at this as you are. Your first experience with a novice can be good or bad, just as it can go both ways with an experienced lesbian or bisexual girl. Just rembember, ";;;;To Thine Own Self Be True." If another person treats you right and good and cares for you as much as you care for them.then what should it matter whether that relationship is between 2 women or 2 men. As long as you don't try and forve your beliefs and ways onto someone else.....don't worry about what they think. You have to live your own life...life is too short to have to live someone's else's ideas of what your life should be like!!
Take your time, don't rush anything..........whatever is right will come to you when the time is right....and you will know what to do then also.
good Luck, and contact me if you need more advice.
2006-08-19 02:23:58 · answer #4 · answered by lildragonlexi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a butch lesbian. Dont start dating women, cause ur gonna end up hurting some poor girl, b/c ur confused. Butch lesbians can be mean just like men. Just hold on and wait for the right guy. Dont date a girl b/c u think she will be more caring, cause ur gonna be in for a surprise.
2006-08-19 02:22:02 · answer #5 · answered by beerdrinker3423 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So just because your not comfortable around guys means you must like girls?? Since when does that equal that. I say go with you haven't found the right guy yet I mean are you attracted to girls???
2006-08-19 02:19:38 · answer #6 · answered by beauty30058 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you don't turn lesbian. You are either lesbian or not. Listen to your heart, and don't let anyone tell you it is wrong or sinful. It is what is inside your heart that is important, not what anyone else thinks about you. You have to answer to your self, no one else. i wish you the best.
2006-08-19 02:02:08 · answer #7 · answered by yuffie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Do you feel attracted to girls or guys? Do you feel comfortable talking to guys or girls? Sometimes when you're attracted to someone, you have trouble talking to them. I think you should give it some time but also think about who you feel attracted to. Who are you thinking about as you fall asleep or when you daydream.
2006-08-19 02:05:15 · answer #8 · answered by when's my next vacation??? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU KNOW WHAT YOU LIKE AND TURN YOU ON I HAVE A MAN BUT I LIKE LOOKING AT WOMEN THEY ARE GORGEOUS TO ME SEXY AND IM A TRYSEXUAL ILL TRY ANYTHING ONCE WHICH I HAVE BUT I CANT GIVE UP D$CK FOR PU$$Y BUT ILL KISS A WOMEN BEFORE I KISS A MAN BUT WHEN IT COMES TO SEX ITS A MAN 100% SO TRY IT YOULL KNOW GOOD LUCK....
2006-08-19 02:04:55 · answer #9 · answered by minnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have a freind that is like that and nobody really cares.... guys love it so they can have two girls in there bed.....ha ha... but yeah nobody cares if u like girls just go for what u think is best for u.... later nice helpin u.... bye
2006-08-19 02:03:41 · answer #10 · answered by mallary910 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋