As you know, I'm now 17. recently, I'm in relationship with a girl of same age. Then, one night, she asked me to have sex with her. I hesisated. Then, she gets angry and wants to break up with me. Is it the right decision to do?
2006-08-18 18:58:13 · 23 answers · asked by Ooi Sung Ching 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
... just dump her.. otherwise tell her if she is the one you love she will wait, if not.. break up..
2006-08-18 19:09:04 · answer #1 · answered by SimileyDaisy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems you are in a role reversal. Usually it is the guy pressuring the woman to have sex. I offer you the same advice I would offer a woman - don't do it unless you are truly ready. Please don't let anyone pressure you into it.
When I was 14 I had a boyfriend that kept pressuring me. He even gave me a box of condoms for Christmas. LOL I stuck to my guns and he broke up with me. I was heartbroken but I don't regret the way I handled that situation.
2006-08-19 02:06:24 · answer #2 · answered by I love my husband 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not be pressured on doing this sort of things!!
this goes for the girls too! no one should be pressured to have sex with there partner !! if you dont feel right then dont do it! if its your first time then it should be good and both of you should be feeling the same way!! but if you do it do it right! get protection you never know what shes got! she might have herpes and wants to give it to you! or shes could be already pregnant from other guys and wants to balme it on you! so becarefull !
good luck!
2006-08-19 02:04:11 · answer #3 · answered by yen12rs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should wait till you are ready. If she's asking to break up because of that then i think you should just do it.
2006-08-19 02:05:25 · answer #4 · answered by ph898486 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wants to break up with you because you will not have sex with her, then you are better off. You don't know who she has had sex with and you might end up with some nasty disease.
2006-08-19 02:04:23 · answer #5 · answered by Kelli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on how you feel...if you dont want to and your not ready dont..because it wont be as good of an experience for you..also she should be understanding and not so pushy tell her to calm down maybe you should do other things besides sex if you know what i mean
2006-08-19 02:04:55 · answer #6 · answered by lonely heart club 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
25 mins ago when you asked your last question you were just 16 yrs old...and had just had sex with a 14 yr old girl..man you get around a lot...lmao
2006-08-19 02:03:59 · answer #7 · answered by panda64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She asked you to have sex with her, run from this girl.
2006-08-19 02:01:31 · answer #8 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey....if u r not ready ......then break up with her.She is not perfect for u.Good luck for next time.I hope next time u will get some girl of your type
2006-08-19 10:55:12 · answer #9 · answered by dolly v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to feel ready. If you're not, she's not the girl for you anyways.
2006-08-19 02:01:36 · answer #10 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only u can tell if it is right for u or not if u want to do it but use protection if u dont want to do it then dont
2006-08-19 02:01:31 · answer #11 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋