Family & Relationships - 11 August 2006

is it ok to be a girl drummer? would it by any chance attract u to that person?

2006-08-11 13:24:03 · 23 answers · asked by liberos-are-fun 2 in Singles & Dating

If I have my arm around my best friends (bordering on gf's) waist, how low is appropriate? Shoul my palm be on her as.s?

2006-08-11 13:23:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have for him, dyed my hair, lost weight i was already a size 10, changed my style of clothes. I have brought toys and he gets an erection but chooses to roll over and go to sleep, no he not seeing anyone else cause he alwasys with me his choice

2006-08-11 13:21:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was with my exboyfriend off and on for 5 years until we decided to go our separate ways. Even though we had broken up, we still remain friends and got together every so often. It's been 3 years since I last spoke to him. I think about him more frequently as time goes by. I even thought of hiring a detective to find him. Everytime I think of him I get goose bumps and my stomach gets in knots. You know that feeling?

The problem is that I've been married for 6 years to the most wonderful man. I thought I would grow to love my husband but it's not working. I don't think I ever truly loved my husband. I don't want to hurt him but I don't think I can stay married to him either.

What should I do? Should I stay married? Should I find my exboyfriend and expect to be disappointed? Please help. I'm desparate.

2006-08-11 13:21:06 · 20 answers · asked by Sally 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Alright so theres this girl i really like but dont know her at all and vice versa, I think she likes me too or something because everytime im not looking at her she will glance back at me and ill glance back and she will turn away real fast..... I wanna get to know her and stuff but i wanna play it cool ya'know and not come off on her the wrong way i dont know what to do.... can any girl(s) (only) give me some good advice...i dont wanna go up and be like hey heres my phone number right off the bat. WHat should i say to her and etc. etc. and girl(s) please help!

2006-08-11 13:18:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ladies?

2006-08-11 13:17:29 · 32 answers · asked by boogaloo 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do some people feel it is nessecery to add insult to injury? I asked a simple question about my deceased friend and some of you couldn't wait to lash out (losers). Thank all of you who sent condolences God Bless you.

2006-08-11 13:17:07 · 7 answers · asked by dealer_stocks 2 in Friends

Women often swoon over eroupean men or men with accents. Do men tend to be attracted to women who have accents, or exotic women?

2006-08-11 13:15:35 · 12 answers · asked by Hello,It'sMe 3 in Singles & Dating

i know i see these types of questions on here ALL of the time, but i have a serious question. i have a doctor who flirts a lot with me. he keeps trying to say new things each visit and it just escalates. i am 22 and i know when someone is just being nice and when someone is flirting, but it's just so weird for it to be happening w/ my doctor! it's like he knows it's wrong because when others are around he doesn't do it. but as soon as we are alone in the treatment room he turns into this casanova that compliments me constantly,makes comments that have sexual undertones to them and not to mention the phone call he made to my house, where he basically tried to play it off like it was about my visit, when basically it really wasn't. he is a lot older than i am, and at times i feel as if he is doing this on purpose to see how far he can go, it's weird how i have let him all up in side my head. i am starting to develope a mild crush on someone that i normally wouldn't. what should i do?

2006-08-11 13:13:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm always supportive of her, and I'm always there when she needs me. Although I have never given her reasons, she's extremely insecure and obviously threatened by me somehow. This is evident by her remarks obviously directed towards me. I love her, and it pains me to watch her struggle with her issues. She's very critical and self-righteous. I wouldn't want her for a friend, but unfortunately she's my sister. My other sister is convinced that she is disturbed and avoids her completely. She tells me that I should confront her, because if I don't I merely give her permission to continue with her abuse. I just want to keep peace within the family, as the rest just tollerate her when they have to. Which is why I believe she singles me out ... because I'm good natured. She has used me and taken advantage of me in the past. It has to stop. What should I do?

2006-08-11 13:12:33 · 15 answers · asked by TCBgirl 3 in Family

no sex in my marriage, tried every trick in the book, my husband does not bat an eyelid. I have high sex drive he has none. I stayed faithful its now once in a whole year. Now we just argue about it. He says he loves me and he does not know why help?? Thinking of divorce

2006-08-11 13:12:27 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I ask questions about my relationship and people always say "Leave, Run away, Don't look behing you..."

From what I know, all people put up with alot of crap in a relationship. What do you put up with? Is what I put up with normal, or is it too much? What makes things like this balance out?

ME:
- Jealous
- Overweight a bit
- Always feel sick
- Poor motivation

HIM:
- Violent when drinking -- damages things on multiple occasions
- Asshole attititude
- Poor motivation
- Terrible with money

Yes, he has hurt me when he drinks. He hasn't done it for along time now so hes getting over it. BUT he has damaged his car like 2 weeks ago because of it. BUT I have my faults too. Do people work on the faults or leave??

What faults do you deal with and when do you leave??

Im the type of person who won't leave someone until im cheated on, etc. so it's hard for me to judge things like that but I think other ppl overreact.

Look at my last ? and answer too pls

2006-08-11 13:12:07 · 12 answers · asked by Poestalker 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-11 13:11:17 · 9 answers · asked by Haley f 1 in Singles & Dating

i found my fiance' online and i am going to meet him for the first time in 2 weeks, i was wondering if anyone has had this same experience, or any suggestions for me.

2006-08-11 13:10:53 · 9 answers · asked by Becky 2 in Singles & Dating

a week. Do you ever get too old for this?

2006-08-11 13:10:39 · 5 answers · asked by Mr. Mojo Rising 3 in Singles & Dating

guys will ask gurls out, then go lookin 4 another!

2006-08-11 13:10:35 · 4 answers · asked by hy_tone 2 in Singles & Dating

Or, rather, this Myspace: http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=47331084

Scary, huh?

2006-08-11 13:10:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mother found out recently my father had an affair. Im 19 and I wish my father unhappiness until the day he dies. He hasn't offered explanations for my mom, he constantly tries to make the matter seem less important than it is, and he only says they need counseling (I know all of this through my mom). But he did not tell my mother of this out of his own accord, so I find myself wondering how my mother could ever trust him. My mom has found him lying so many times before I dont think it is possible for him to tell the truth. It seems to me that if this had happened in my situation I would have thrown him out of the house and threatened with divorce and only thought of continuing the relationship if he came and offered to make all the amends possible. My mother wont let me talk to him about any of it. I feel I can never trust men again, and I have so much pent up rage that I feel I could wish his death in front of him if I were given the chance. I feel I deserve information.

2006-08-11 13:09:26 · 19 answers · asked by Carla S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-11 13:09:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For me:
Cuteness (not in looks, personality)
Sence of humor
Not a goody2shoes
Can treat me right
Doesnt jump to getting close
Calls me often
Doesnt get annoyed when I call a lot
Thinks I am beautiful
Treats me like a princess
Respects me and my family
Knows how to have fun
Is nice
I like a guy who knows me, and who I know I can trust, and I know he really loves me.

2006-08-11 13:06:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

sign* me and my classmate has this chemistry with each other.. and some of my friends say that we really look cute together.. and i thought that he is my soulmate, coz some people says that he admires me not only that he always texts me and he is very sweet with me.... but then it all changed.. we had a school group called peer facilitators group and then all of a sudden i heard that he is courting this girl also a member of pfg.. i was really shocked!! but i misunderstood all his actions towards me.. he is just simply friendly and sweet.. and he only wants me as friends,, just friends.. i know that its my fault but what should i do? i really love him so much and i dont want to be his friend only, i want to be more than that.. and i tried not to text him and etc. but i get conscience coz he considers me as a bestfriend and he also said to me that he can get over to a loveone but not to his bestfriend just like me... whoooaaahh!! help me.. what should i do??

2006-08-11 13:06:26 · 24 answers · asked by _-rei-_ 2 in Friends

well i love having sex and i think i like no matter who it is but all my friends say that im a ***** that im this and that im that and i understand cuz i know im a ***** when it comes to that but i cant help it and in my skool they voted me as class hore and i felt really bad and now i really want to stop it but i dont know how please help me

2006-08-11 13:05:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

with a child, but i have alawys found myself attracted to women as well as men, does that mean i am bi? I experimented with girls when i was like 14-16, and had fun, but i like the idea of having a girlfriend as well.. my husband is the typical man and is always asking for a 3-some, but i dont want to share him, but that seems the only way i can do it without cheating...what to do..?

2006-08-11 13:05:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just wondering if there are other people out there who are also dissatisfied with their life?At my age(32) I have no boyfriend,few friends,and not where i want to be or even near financially.Would like to hear what you think.Please only serious replies,thanks

2006-08-11 13:04:33 · 22 answers · asked by sugar_n_spice 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am pretty observant and I can usually tell when a guy likes me. I am often tempted to save guys trouble by telling them "I don't like you" before they ever say anything. Is that rude? It's just that it's really annoying to know they like me and know that eventually you're gonna reject them anyway... why not spare them now? Or should I just let them go and see if they say anything in case I'm wrong?

2006-08-11 13:03:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

oh yeah and what r u doing today?jejejeje just wondering

2006-08-11 13:02:41 · 7 answers · asked by CRISTINA* 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been married for 18 years. we have had ups and downs. we have separated before about 5 times the shortest 1 week the longrst 2 months. our two kid are 16 and 19. our relationship is like a room mate. we both do not initiat sex. all i hear is that she is not happy and that it is my fault. if i am not making here happy and i dont want to change the person i am. is it time to go our own way. i stay away from other women because i do not want a women to be an excuse. i know things will be pain full but i do not want to hurt her

2006-08-11 13:02:09 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Guys, does it get you off asking these stupid as$ questions about whether or not girls like s.ucking or being l.icked better. Why not try getting off the computer and finding a REAL woman and finding out for yourselves? It'll be more satisfying.

2006-08-11 13:02:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I havent seen my son in since he was 14 he is not 18. I have been fighting in courts going nowhere. Havent heard a word, Father told anybody who brings me up to my children, he will not let them see the kids. Well, my dad, spoke to my oldest. And asked if he would ever want to talk to me again. He said not right now, but he does want to. What do I do next just wait, or try and contact him? (The courts say to hold on and wait because of the appeal, but he is 18 now and they were just afraid that the father would influence my son and have him put an order of protection on me which would make me look bad in court). I dont believe this is the case with my son. My husband said in court that my son wants nothing to do with me, obviously, that is not the case.
Advise please.

2006-08-11 13:01:05 · 10 answers · asked by ms.mary 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My pet hampster, is thinking about skydiving, Ive tried to tell him how dangerous it is, but he never listens to me, should I let him do it??????????

2006-08-11 13:00:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family