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Alright so theres this girl i really like but dont know her at all and vice versa, I think she likes me too or something because everytime im not looking at her she will glance back at me and ill glance back and she will turn away real fast..... I wanna get to know her and stuff but i wanna play it cool ya'know and not come off on her the wrong way i dont know what to do.... can any girl(s) (only) give me some good advice...i dont wanna go up and be like hey heres my phone number right off the bat. WHat should i say to her and etc. etc. and girl(s) please help!

2006-08-11 13:18:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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First thing you need to know is that she is obviously interested. The fact that you catch her checking you out and then she turns away really fast is a VERY GOOD sign. You should definitely approach her you just have to pick the right approach for the right time. If you see her at work/school, see if you can "arrange" and opportunity when you can bump into her (w/o making it look like you're stalking her, lol) and then say hello, how are you, you know something small to break the ice and to let her know that you are interested as well, the conversation will take off from there. Should the opportunity arise when you are commuting home (I don't know where you live, but here in NY we have to take public transportation which allows us the opportunity to bump into the same people over and over) and she happens to be going the same way, sit/stand near her and make eye contact, once the eyes lock you can approach her. A simple hi will be suffice being that she sounds like she's into you. Don't think too much about it just do it, the worst thing you can do is approach a girl with a tired rehearsed line. Plus why would you want a girl who responds to corny pick up lines anyway? If she is worth being with she will appreciate the fact that you took the HUGE step in approaching her first and she'll make you feel at ease right off the bat. Just be yourself and I'm sure you'll be fine. Good Luck!

2006-08-14 14:19:50 · answer #1 · answered by qtee425 2 · 0 0

Well go up to her and make a joke about something or complement her or ask her a question that is open ended....She should start talking to you. Once this has happened, casually offer hanging out sometime to like play bball or something else fun...or say this at another time so you dont seem too eager at first. If she says yes when you do ask, then exchange numbers.

2006-08-11 20:23:50 · answer #2 · answered by prodigy 2 · 0 0

well... for starters if u both r looking at each other, maybe u could say hi, i mean, wht harm can it do, then become friends and if u hit it off ask her to go out on a date, and take it from there, but stay cool, dont mess it up cuz u prob will regret it if u do, hope i helped

2006-08-11 20:22:21 · answer #3 · answered by a girl with question 1 · 0 0

ye, introduce yourself
ask for her number instead of leaving yours, most girls don't like it cuz the impression u'll leave is that u had a gazillion of rejections in the past and are scared of another one

2006-08-11 20:30:05 · answer #4 · answered by sar-mir 4 · 0 0

try talking to her about normal stuff and see if you guys have anything in common, friends first boyfriend girlfriend later slip dating into normal conversation....example (you guys are talking about this movie that you went and saw then ask her if she wants to go to a movie sometime ect

2006-08-11 20:27:16 · answer #5 · answered by sweethearts 1 · 0 0

Well, just go up to her and talk to her, be yourself, ask her some questions to let you know that she does like you back, then ask her out.

2006-08-11 20:22:32 · answer #6 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0 0

o geez. its kinda nice ot know that a GUY also feels this way...go up to her ...(with friends) and say sumthin along the lines of.....hey i'm ____ and this is ____ , ___, __, and blank....most likely she will introduce u to her own friebnds...and so on

2006-08-11 20:23:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

u should say hi and tell her u like something of her clothing or her shoes good luck:)

2006-08-11 20:28:14 · answer #8 · answered by i love softball 1 · 0 0

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