I am pretty observant and I can usually tell when a guy likes me. I am often tempted to save guys trouble by telling them "I don't like you" before they ever say anything. Is that rude? It's just that it's really annoying to know they like me and know that eventually you're gonna reject them anyway... why not spare them now? Or should I just let them go and see if they say anything in case I'm wrong?
2006-08-11 13:03:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Usually it not acceptable to shoot a guy down until he asks for your phone number, or a date.
2006-08-11 13:09:51 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's kind of rude and sort of concieted, to turn someone down before they even say a word to you. And just telling boys out of the blue that you don't like them is going to get you the reputation of being a major *****. I get hit on by a lot of guys, both here and in person, I just simply tell them that I'm sorry I'm not interested because I already have a b/f (which is the truth). I try not to be rude unless they press the point. But there is no need to ruin someones day who has done nothing more than noticed that you are attractive.
2006-08-11 20:21:11 · answer #2 · answered by abbyl16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're too picky. It sounds to me like you make your decision before they even speak to you, which means you judge solely on looks. You might miss a great opportunity that way. Even if you're "sure" that you'll say no, i think you should give them a chance anyway. And when they confront you about it, don't be a b*tch. He likes you, all the girls to choose from, and he tries for you. Even if he's a loser, if that doesn't compliment you then there's something wrong with you. Don't be cocky and let all the attention you get go to your head! That's a sure way to end up with a VERY thick head. When a guy tells you he likes you, try to reject him in the nicest way possible. Tell him "how sweet. Sorry, but your just not my type." or "Oh... I've already got someone else in mind. Sorry."
2006-08-11 20:25:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does self-center means anything to you? Trust me you are not all that. Maybe that some guys are just showing you pity and only pretend to like you? Look at your self in the mirror and see your true self, could be that you will reject your self then?
2006-08-11 20:10:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should really let them go cause wat if they're like a nervous type and are nervous to like ask u out or something and well weather u reject them are not the are still building courage to ask girls out and itll really put them down if u tell them b4 the even try
2006-08-11 20:06:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try asking and then rejecting. Make sure to let them down easy, you don't want to hurt their feelings.
Have a nice day :-)
2006-08-11 20:07:03 · answer #6 · answered by drewfranklin4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It Is rude! But i like the fact that you don't waste our time. Find a nicer way 2 do it.
2006-08-11 20:07:14 · answer #7 · answered by lvsshanom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember that about all of them just want you for some nights,and they'll forget you by finding a prettier one.dont think about it and be yourself. your love is some where around.you'll catch it at the right time.
2006-08-11 20:36:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really should try to get to know people better. maybe they are thinking the same about you.
2006-08-11 20:08:48 · answer #9 · answered by norwood 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all things show compassion...
2006-08-11 20:09:56 · answer #10 · answered by South Georgia Boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋