Family & Relationships - 9 August 2006

Here's the situation: My husband and I have been married for 22 months, and he has decided that he can't be my husband anymore. He says that he still loves me and always will but we just hasn't felt "married" to me anymore. We have been going through a very rough period in our relationship. He had been working until late and I'd been working early in the morning, we haven't had time to talk or do anything else, really, for about 3-4 months now. And then he decided that the way to fix it was to end our relationship. I think it's way too early to be thinking about divorce, when it hasn't even been 2 years since we got married. And I want to convince him that if he loves me, and I love him, that should be all that matters, and we can use this situation to reverse things in our lives and help our relationship evolve. All he says is that he doesn't know what to do. How can I make him believe in us? Have faith? Try?

2006-08-09 10:30:34 · 22 answers · asked by Nina E 2 in Marriage & Divorce

It seems to me, no offence to you guys who may be reading this, that men fall into two categories. The non commiting, and the players, maybe it's just one category. I know that's just my experience but honestly, why does it feel like such an impossible task to find a decent guy who wants the same things as you do?

2006-08-09 10:30:25 · 36 answers · asked by Sweething 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-09 10:29:33 · 19 answers · asked by squirellywrath 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

theres this new fam in my ct. my fam knows every1 in there and there all old ppl and lil kids n now theres a guy my age should i talk to him??????

2006-08-09 10:29:27 · 8 answers · asked by taken n lovin it 2 in Singles & Dating

my dad didn't allow or aprove of my relationship wit my ex.
and they always told me he had other women
so i cheated on him too.
now my relationship of 3 yrs is over cause he got some one else pregnant and i can't help but to blame myself for wat he did or my dad cause he didn't let me see him at all>>>

2006-08-09 10:28:21 · 8 answers · asked by Eleivia V 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just got married 1 year ago, and this kid is like Satans spawn....
He never listen's, he won't do as asked.
When I go to his father about it, he tells me to lighten up!! He says he's only 15 and asking him to take out the garbage is to hard.
And he says he shouldn't have to clean his room because he's building character.
And, why should I force him to take a shower, after all, it's his body not ours......Help.
Don't get me wrong, he don't smell like a septic, I just feel he should bathe more often, maybe i'm wrong.
Some advice plz....

2006-08-09 10:27:44 · 25 answers · asked by Torri * 3 in Family

I,ve heard ladies say they know, but yet they,re always complaining about how lousy sex is!

2006-08-09 10:27:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and i dont know if i should listen to them.they keep telling me to take a shower or go chase a dog on the street.my brother who is half penguin half monkey bit me and gave me rabies.the voices in my head also tell me to take him to the exorcist and get his stupidity banished.should i do that?

2006-08-09 10:27:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I understand sex is fun and all. But it sounds like some people let it conquer their minds. You guys/girls get something else to do.

2006-08-09 10:27:05 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it just me or has being bisexual become a trend? How many young girls do you see that say they are bisexual! Do they say this because they think that's what a man wants to hear? Am I just missing the whole point??

2006-08-09 10:26:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been with my girlfriend for 11 years,sincei was 16 and in that time i have never even kissed another women,reason being my girlfriends past partners have cheated on her and i would never hurt her that way,noone would even come close to her anyway.she treats me great and were perfect in everyway apart from her jealousy and possessivness,example is if i talk to another woman when were in a club or something she says im flirting and im really not,i wouldn,t period,but she is convinced i am then when we get home she goes through my phone to see if i got any numbers why i was out.then when she goes to visit her mum she comes back and checks my phone again,if my friends call me and ask me to go for a drink i always ask her to come but 90% of the time she refuses so i cant go,well i can but she says if i go on my own i mustnt love her,its just not worth the hassle,what can i do to change her i treat her well and i KNOW she loves me,how can i stop this behaviour????i feel smothered help

2006-08-09 10:26:50 · 4 answers · asked by verons_girl 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-09 10:26:09 · 10 answers · asked by hotdancer_3 2 in Friends

Okay, I'm curious about something here.
I've seen a widely varied type of responses about sex on this site.

I've seen people say that you shouldn't depend on a good sex life to make you happy, and then that you shouldn't have sex before marriage, and that sex isn't that important in a relationship.

So going off of that theory.

Why do so many marriages end in divorce because of a spouse cheating on the other. More specifically, having sex with someone other than their spouse.

If sex isn't so important, and isn't one of the defining factors of a good relationship or marriage, then how come so many relationships end because of it?

2006-08-09 10:26:00 · 23 answers · asked by cloaked30m 3 in Marriage & Divorce

You don't have to tell me
I can see it in your eyes
You think its going wrong again................

did'nt any one tell you
that love will make you cry
But I think we can pull it though if we try.

Do you think thats true?

2006-08-09 10:25:15 · 7 answers · asked by Candy 3 in Friends

2006-08-09 10:25:12 · 7 answers · asked by FALCO 3 in Friends

2006-08-09 10:25:09 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-09 10:24:21 · 23 answers · asked by sportygal 2 in Singles & Dating

well

2006-08-09 10:24:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a very volatile relationship with my girlfriend. She is younger than me by 14 years. We are either fighting or making love. It is the strangest relationship I have ever been in and I'm afraid it's not going to work. She is 38 and she has never been married and she doesn't have children. One time she had 53 cats. (This is not a joke) Now she just has two older cats. I have no idea if she wants to marry me. I'm trying to hold off as long as I can because I know it's probably the wrong decision, but I think about her constantly. I can't sleep at night when we're apart. She has never lived with anyone before, but I have been staying with her about 3 nights a week. She is the strangest person I have ever met, and she is totally unpredictable. There may be some mental illness issues involved. Please help me decide what to do?

2006-08-09 10:24:09 · 13 answers · asked by yamaha bassman 2 in Weddings

should i screw my neighbor? I dont really know her, but ive already fooled around w/ her. I dont really want a relationship and she moves out in another month? What should I do?

2006-08-09 10:24:06 · 5 answers · asked by leisureeric 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-09 10:23:57 · 2 answers · asked by O Money 1 in Friends

How do you cope?

2006-08-09 10:23:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I havent done nothing to him but be nice and sweet to him, but I get treated badly, please tell me what the problem is if anyone knows.

2006-08-09 10:23:22 · 12 answers · asked by maryanntiller 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband knows i hate strip clubs and porn but yet the other day i caught him online watching porn- what the hell? divorce?

2006-08-09 10:23:12 · 5 answers · asked by jerbear0510 1 in Marriage & Divorce

at 48 her (my boss) skirts are getting shorter and shorter and she,s showing more of her chest lately, she,s married but I HONESTLY think something is wrong! she,s craving for something!

2006-08-09 10:22:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-09 10:22:36 · 2 answers · asked by RC 1 in Family

No children in marriage, no assets or obligations

2006-08-09 10:22:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How do I deal with my fiance's ex-wife having a drug problem and being a drug dealer when he refuses to believe she has anything at all to do with it? Might I add they have two young children which he has full custody of through the court systems, and he continues to help her out finacially because he doesn't want to see the mother of his children living on the streets. (He will never believe she has a problem until she is caught red handed.)

2006-08-09 10:21:53 · 15 answers · asked by mixemup 6 in Marriage & Divorce

This is for guys *only*. Right, we've totally had enough with women stealing millions of our children and then demanding ransom. [Which they call 'child support' of course [reminds us of how Hitler renamed things]]

2006-08-09 10:21:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-09 10:21:28 · 16 answers · asked by kim 1 in Marriage & Divorce