It seems to me, no offence to you guys who may be reading this, that men fall into two categories. The non commiting, and the players, maybe it's just one category. I know that's just my experience but honestly, why does it feel like such an impossible task to find a decent guy who wants the same things as you do?
2006-08-09 10:30:25 · 36 answers · asked by Sweething 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Boy do some of you guys have a huge chip on your shoulder!!! Be nice or don't reply!!!
2006-08-09 10:55:21 · update #1
Sure there are tons of decent guys out there. You just don't notice them and don't realize they are their till someone else has taken the time to get to know them, given them an extra dose of confidence, and cleaned them up a little.
The right woman for a guy makes the guy a ton more attractive. That extra bit of confidence and a little housebreaking can take someone you think of as drab and turn him into that amazing great guy you want so much.
2006-08-09 10:36:03 · answer #1 · answered by cloaked30m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh there still are decent men out there!
I actually bumped into one, he was 28 and single, I could not understand why, he isn't the non committing type, not a player, but a decent, honest, genuine guy with all the right values.
I had been single myself for ages and was starting to loose hope. Until this dream walked into my life. Later on he told me he was basically single just because he'd so rarely had the courage to ask anyone out though he's not the shy type.. And then if he did ask someone out, nothing had just clicked and he'd be even more afraid to ask someone else out in fear of never finding anyone anyway.. And we are talking about a good looking, successful, funny guy!
Can't really say if he asked me out or did i ask him out but we ended up on a date anyway. And another date.. and another.. I thought he was a treasure worth keeping and he has been my boyfriend for a nice time now..
I never thought I'd meet anyone. But this guy has given me and my several single lady friends loads of hope.. There are good men out there. But no matter how strong and bold they might seem, some of them just need extra encouragement to ask girls out. Go for it!
2006-08-09 10:54:36 · answer #2 · answered by Sini H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because so many men are liars.At least you realise what they are like and that is half your battle won.
Men are in general liars and players,they will tell a girl anything,promise her the sun the moon and the stars if they think it will get them what they want from her.
Its sad,men do treat women really badly,however many women fail to realise this,you are one of the enlightened ones.
Yes you can find a decent guy if you are careful and look in the right place,take your time and get to know each other,question his motives and integrity,an honest guy will be only too happy to prove his feelings for you,time and deeds are what matters not hollow words !
Good luck !
2006-08-09 10:40:26 · answer #3 · answered by any 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing is you probadly know the guy that would love to commit to you, but you just don't see them in that. Maybe you like the not commiters or players because they offer a challenge to you! Trust me not all the good guys are actually taken, it's probadly the other way round, all the good guys are single and the bad guys are taken.
2006-08-09 10:51:03 · answer #4 · answered by quamig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
<====== A PRETTY DECENT GUY!!!
I'm pretty decent. Not a thug or playa. Never a womanizer. Honest. But what do I know. It seems to me that women want to play the dangerous game and end up hurt then as questions like this. I think if we cut the crap and be ourselves, we'll see each other for real people. But that's me. You can check out my 360 page if you want to chat or email. But I am a decent guy, according to my friends.
2006-08-09 10:40:10 · answer #5 · answered by ntoriano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually like commital, monogamy, and such, i get off on that, it's great. Just wish women i've known felt the same.
So i know exactly what you mean, and im a guy! Some of us (like me) are decent though!
2006-08-09 11:31:28 · answer #6 · answered by homiepr8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All depends what you want I suppose.... If you want 4 kids and a house in Hampshire then don't look in the local spit and sawdust pub for a bloke, they will not want to give up 10 pints a day and a good laugh for 8000 nappies and a 100 year mortgage...
2006-08-09 10:37:42 · answer #7 · answered by richard5055 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many good men out there. It depends on what you call a good man. Maybe you are looking in the wrong places. How old are you , I have a son who does NOT live with me, has the same thoughts about woman, maybe you are a match
2006-08-09 10:46:11 · answer #8 · answered by linloue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your talking to the wrong and not communicating what you want sure there are player only looking for sex and then there good men out there decent men.and maybe it is me you some times have to watch how far you will let man get away with sexually.tell the guy I am looking for committement if only thing your interested in is my body then move on .
2006-08-09 10:42:09 · answer #9 · answered by ghostdog506 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, to find a decent man, you MUST be a decent woman and go where decent men go. You won't find them in pick up bars and you won't find them by putting out. Heck, why should they be decent when they can be indecent and still have ya! Men are not hard to figure out, once you do, you women can have them in the palm of your hands.
2006-08-09 10:39:34 · answer #10 · answered by Mature 1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋