i have been with my girlfriend for 11 years,sincei was 16 and in that time i have never even kissed another women,reason being my girlfriends past partners have cheated on her and i would never hurt her that way,noone would even come close to her anyway.she treats me great and were perfect in everyway apart from her jealousy and possessivness,example is if i talk to another woman when were in a club or something she says im flirting and im really not,i wouldn,t period,but she is convinced i am then when we get home she goes through my phone to see if i got any numbers why i was out.then when she goes to visit her mum she comes back and checks my phone again,if my friends call me and ask me to go for a drink i always ask her to come but 90% of the time she refuses so i cant go,well i can but she says if i go on my own i mustnt love her,its just not worth the hassle,what can i do to change her i treat her well and i KNOW she loves me,how can i stop this behaviour????i feel smothered help
2006-08-09 10:26:50 · 4 answers · asked by verons_girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her how you feel about her and that if she cant trust you then it would be best if the both of you went separate ways. Be nice about it, take her on a really nice date and just spill your heart to her. Then give the ultimatum "baby if you cant learn to respect my friends and my time away from you, then you will never trust me, and if the relationship goes any farther its just gonna be a waste of time, so you have an option, either chill out or lose me forever". Make sure you stick to it! You have a life and you should ENJOY IT!
2006-08-09 10:37:04 · answer #1 · answered by wildcat06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WEll honestly if you have put up with it for 11 years the chances of her changing now are slim to none. You need to seek couseling if you want to save whats left.
Usually if a person is that jelous its only becuase they are the ones doing it.I'm sorry but it kinda sounds like shes cheating and feels guilty and thinks that if shes doing it than you must be to.
I would start rethinkign your relashionship becuase you cnat live like that forever.
2006-08-09 17:34:07 · answer #2 · answered by chicata25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you put up with this???? anyways together since you were 16 -how many relationships did she have before? IF she loved you she wouldn't behave this way -at this point therapy is your only solution--IF she loves you
2006-08-09 17:36:32 · answer #3 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why does anyone believe your questions? you're full of sh*t
check out her/his other questions people and what she/he chooses as best answer before you waste your time on this
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2006-08-10 12:35:48 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋