2006-08-09 10:24:21 · 23 answers · asked by sportygal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not at all. if a girl plays hard to get then a guy thinks they have no interest in them. the guy will naturally shake it off and move on to a new girl and try to catch her interest.
2006-08-09 10:28:54 · answer #1 · answered by confusedude529 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i dont think so,i guess it sucks for the guys but most times the ladies do it to know how serious a guy is in being his girl,while sometimes while trying to play hard they fall into wrong hands because some guys know how to get girls are play hard to get,as for me i dont common its old school and i guess we are mature now just go to the point and tell him no or yes and give some reasonable anwswers why u dun want him.playing hard makes a guy really deal with you when hes finally got you.
2006-08-09 17:39:53 · answer #2 · answered by sherry c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how well they are playing that game. Most guys get really irritated when they find out they are IN a game. And then will up and leave your game playing butt on the curb.
If its just dating wise, 'hard to get to go out' if you guide them carefully, they'll feel like they really scored something important, and places a pretty high value on your time. But then that puts a lot of pressure on you to then live up to that value.
If its sexual, better know who you are playing with. Ever hear of date rape? Every guy, and I do mean EVERY guy, has their breaking point where he just can't take anymore. that doesn't imply that every guy will rape. Just that they might just stomp out the door angry with you and you'll have defeated your purpose. Don't push them too hard and make sure they know where they stand with you.
2006-08-09 17:31:49 · answer #3 · answered by cloaked30m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you play hard to get, the only guys you'll get are the dick heads, the ones who cheat, the ones who like the chase, but get bored when they get what they want.
But that doesn't mean you should play it easy either, be reserved, but dont play games. It annoys the **** out of nice guys when chicks play hard to get.
2006-08-09 17:29:22 · answer #4 · answered by Andy!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some enjoy the chase, some don't. I don't even enjoy that when it comes to guys and I don't do it to guys. I think it's bullshet. Playing games to get someone interested or whatever is pathetic and slightly immature.
2006-08-09 17:27:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all good for a little while, especially in the beginning. It shows you're not easy to get with, but you have to make sure and show him you're interested or else he'll walk away, because he thinks you're not interested or to hard to get with. Trust me.
2006-08-09 17:32:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think so.
I liked this guy forever and i finally told him i did. He didnt like me like that though. I was crushed. I made everyone think that i was so over him and we were just good friends. He would flirt with me and compliment me 24/7. He fell for me. It doesnt work with all guys. Some arent smart enough. :) good luck! <3
2006-08-09 17:29:00 · answer #7 · answered by Candy099 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not me...I am on the downhill slide to seventy and can not spare the time or the games that go along with playing hard to get.....besides...playing hard to get is immature and intellectually childish.
2006-08-09 17:28:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like the chase.
2006-08-09 17:28:46 · answer #9 · answered by tina m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one like games, if you play games with them they will play games with you.
2006-08-09 17:29:20 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋