You all have probably heard this 100 times, but I have this really great B/F meaning he's nice and helpful most times, but the problem is he's boring! I'm a living for the moment person, meaning just that, I live for the moment. My B/F is a living for the future guy, always saving, always stashing, not ever going with the flow. Life is too short to just go to the movies all the time (which is what he likes to do all the time) I like trying new things, seeing all that world has to offer, where's he's too busy planning and putting everything in little boxes, it takes the fun out of it. I love him so he's a wonderful man, but I don't think were compatiable. I don't want him to change, it's not fair to ask him to change because it's who he is. He says it's because of his parents and they way they handled money(poorly his dad was a alcoholic). I tried telling him, he won't end up like his parents.
Old habits die hard? Any suggestions? No silliness, real people w/real answers.
2006-08-07
10:33:36
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