I am very attracted to gothic or punk guys. The depression makes me want to love them and keep them. Is it wrong to be attracted to "depressed" guys? If they have problems i just want to love them and be there for them. I have a bf who almost killed himself and he said I'm the only one keeping him alive but again, is it wrong?
2006-08-07 10:30:48 · 7 answers · asked by ilovefromfirsttolast222 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No... it's not your fault. But do give those other guys a try. Also, I'm the same way. Give yourself a break every once in a while... it can be tiring (you can't save every guy on the planet)
2006-08-07 10:35:32 · answer #1 · answered by Lindz 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just understand that they probably won't change, regardless how much love you have for them. Are you okay with the guy 5 years down the line and he is still "depressed?" That's a probably scenario you will face down the line.
2006-08-07 10:36:17 · answer #2 · answered by erk m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look there is not something incorrect with you. adult males your guy or woman age at the instant are not very mature, all they desire to do is occasion. Older adult males can cope with you greater effective, take you places and cope with you like females might desire to be taken care of. it quite is amazingly undemanding this present day and time to make certain young women with older mature adult males. I say if it quite is what makes you sense soft then do it and circulate on do not care what human beings think of.
2016-12-11 09:08:08 · answer #3 · answered by bienvenu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong especially if you can save them from suicide. You are a hero and worth it then!
2006-08-07 10:34:53 · answer #4 · answered by Time goes by 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no most peolpe go for the same types of peopleto date
2006-08-07 10:39:00 · answer #5 · answered by shaki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! You have plenty of time to find your man...wait until he comes along. Dont settle for less :)
2006-08-07 10:34:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its kinda sick, maybe there is some part of you that needs to feel like someone is only living for you, in which case you might want to get a pet....one that can't slit their wrists
2006-08-07 10:47:14 · answer #7 · answered by Jamie D 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋