why cant people just admit that they are wrong, or they are the cause of problems why do they always have to blame innocent people for their mistakes
2006-08-07 10:31:59 · 19 answers · asked by sweetlikehoney_73 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
my ex knocks on my door, accuses me of cheating, when somehow his stupid mess have got hold of my number and threaten me, when they are his mates and are all really sick, and I get the blame for that, then, to get me back he lies about killing him self and I get sceared, help me!!!! where is my fault in all of this? and he lies to the police to make me look a bad mother
2006-08-07 11:40:26 · update #1
its because their afraid of facing their own mistakes.and because of that they blame others and if ur honest and dont blame others u wont hurt others feelings.
2006-08-07 10:36:31 · answer #1 · answered by ^_^' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason is a serious lack of personal responsibility around these days. The law, bad parenting, and society at large tell people that they can blame people for anything instead of having the ethics, and guts, to acknowledge their own choices
2006-08-07 10:49:47 · answer #2 · answered by Sen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes many people feel the need to do this. These kinds of people are pathetic losers. Admitting when we are wrong and being honest makes us much better people and if more people were like this the world would be an easier place to live in.
2006-08-07 10:37:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They certainly do, don't they. Or they reach back years and find an event to justify what they do.
From a divorce that shredded my life and my heart, I came to a new philosophy:
I am not interested in how we got here, I am only interested in where we go FROM here.
Admit when you're wrong, forgive when you are wronged, and make the best of life ahead.
2006-08-07 10:36:47 · answer #4 · answered by Yote' 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
people blame others for their mistakes because it is easier. much easier to say oh its his fault rather then saying oh sh*t I messed up, I better make some changes. then they have to see the truth and the truth hurts sometimes. you tell who ever is blaming you to look in the mirror and they will find their culprit
2006-08-07 10:40:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone is like that, but alot of people think that it will get them further in life if they blame someone else. I, for one, fess up to my mistakes and correct them personally.
2006-08-07 10:34:38 · answer #6 · answered by Tammy O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine personal accountability is sparkling for the time of the Bible. yet we are also inter-linked, for the time of the Bible. moms and dads are given sparkling classes with reference to the learning of their little ones, as an instance. there is Scripture concerning a thanks to take care of Church self-discipline. we've the former testomony tale of "sin contained in the camp," about Achan and the discomfort and suffering it brought about all God's human beings. Ecclesiastes ends this way (12:13-14 KJV): "enable us listen the suitable of the total count number: concern God, and save his commandments; for it truly is the total accountability of guy. For God shall deliver each artwork into judgment, with each secret difficulty, even if or not it really is reliable, or maybe if or not it really is evil."
2016-11-23 14:48:22 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think people definitely project their mistakes onto other people, sometimes unknowingly. It's probably just a normal human reaction.
2006-08-07 10:36:05 · answer #8 · answered by HappyMOm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are absolutely correct... many people don't want to take responsibility for their actions... they rather blame it on someone else... that is how they justify their continuation of it.
2006-08-07 10:38:16 · answer #9 · answered by .·:*RENE*:·. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cause its easier to point the finger at others
2006-08-07 10:35:06 · answer #10 · answered by celine8388 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋