2006-08-07 10:31:47 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if you are asking, it is quite probable that it is "wrong" for you
it's not something to enter into lightly that is for sure
2006-08-07 10:36:48 · answer #1 · answered by redandkitty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is something one has to be veeery careful about. Basically as long as you are stork prrof, disease free and so are the partners you then have worries about how each partner feels and relates to these encounters. A lot of guys drag thier wives more or less against the womens wishes to swing clubs. The guys discover they more or less dont enjoy seeing and hearing the wife have a great night with five or ten guys, to say their three women, and the wives find they L O V E it, but the guy is not too happy at all....
Be careful, be open and honest, have fun.
2006-08-07 17:40:39 · answer #2 · answered by Taliesin7 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally think it is. Why would you want to do that if both of you are already commited to each other? Not only that... but, marriage is a sacred bond kinda thing.
I wouldn't want my husband to go swinging or even mate swapping. I find it very disgusting in a way, but there are some people that does this.. so, I don't know, I think they are weird.
What about you? Would you want your wife / gf to have sex with other people just for the fun of it?
Hm... o.0?
2006-08-07 17:38:59 · answer #3 · answered by *a∙e∙r∙i∙t∙h* 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Swinging can help or hurt a relationship depends on so many factors. In ours it helped. It opened our communication and trust for each other. I have seen it hurt. Swinging is NOT a bandage for a bad relationship. I wish all those with a bad relationship would stay out of it; it gives swingers a bad image. Most are very stable and happy couples that tend to have free spirits that don’t rely on western civilization or religion to give them morals
2006-08-11 11:53:39 · answer #4 · answered by Tequila Gypsy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are many wrongs in this world, however, if as a couple such behavior is agreed upon, No, it isn't wrong. It's wrong when one is pressuring the other to go against their believes.
2006-08-07 19:21:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to be with some one if you are just going to swap with some else? you might as well stay single and just sleep around.
2006-08-07 17:36:47 · answer #6 · answered by MAS 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's fine if both partners like it, but if one is doing it just to please the other it is wrong. In that situation someone will get hurt. Plus being safe, using condoms, that is important too. Why do you ask, contemplating?
2006-08-07 17:35:28 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Different strokes for different folks.. For me.. yeah it's not a good thing... but I am not with you, so therefore, I could care less.. just make sure your mate is okay with it... ;)
2006-08-07 17:36:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong for ME. However, no one has the right to judge or decide what's right, or wrong for anyone else but them!
2006-08-07 17:46:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2006-08-07 17:41:15 · answer #10 · answered by Adelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋