Recently my SO said the following: "I could have anyone I want, but I choose to be with you."
When I asked for clarification re: the comment he said, "Well it's true. I'm a nice guy."
He then went on to say it was meant as a compliment and that I should not take it as anything else. That what he was acutally saying was that he loves me, and wants to be with only me and no one else.
He also says that I should take meaning from the "intent" of his words, not the actual words; and that since I do not, that is why I "misinterpret" what he says.
I am offended, think the comment is egotistical, and that it infers I am "lucky" to have him.
I also think that his words should match his emotions, and I should not be expected to take meaning from "intentions" - that this is unrealistic.
Opinions??????
2006-08-06
17:31:38
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