There is a guy I know that I have worked with this summer (we are both in college but at different schools) but we have so little in common. I think he's really attractive but as much as I try to convince myself we have nothing in common I still try to impress him at our weekly meetings. I don't want to say too much on here about what I know of him but it's weird because I doubt he has any interest in me. It's frustrating because I can't NOT like him.
Any (serious) thoughts?
2006-08-06 17:40:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay some more things... I have spent time with him at work but didn't really ask a lot of really personal questions... we had a lot of time in the car and there were lots of silent/awkward pauses because I'm not good at talking to people I don't know well.
And because of that, I don't know when I would talk to him.
I guess I was just trying to get people to talk me out of this but it seems to be turning out the opposite...
2006-08-06 17:59:30 · update #1
Sounds like you really like this guy, but for whatever reason you are finding excuses not to.
Maybe this guy feels the same way you do. Continue to do what you are doing, but don't try so hard to impress him. Be yourself, flirt a little or A LOT. Sometimes guys need you to spell things out for them!!!!
Come up for a reason that you two would have to get together outside of your weekly meetings, if you can't come up with a reason, then just ask him to go for a drink or a coffee or something. You will find out by his answer what he thinks. This is the only way you are going to be able to get an answer. If not it is going to drive you CRAZY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Good Luck
2006-08-06 17:48:48 · answer #1 · answered by Mystery Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are really attracted to him. Just because you are from two different worlds. Does not mean it can not work. Most of the time that is the best love.
2006-08-07 00:46:07 · answer #2 · answered by lovely soul with insite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is ok that u like him ... flow with your emotions. All this are only short-live passion. As time comes, there will be problems surfacing between you and him. It will only be at that time when u know are u really liking him. Chill & relax .... Human needs one another to live. Its all in your mind.
2006-08-07 00:46:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously i think someone likes him.lol. but foreal you like him stop trying to fool yourself. have you ever heard the saying opposites attract? congrats now you have and youve even witnessed it first hand. go with the flow it might be worth a try.
2006-08-07 00:48:57 · answer #4 · answered by Adrian N. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should give it a shot and talk to him about it....it always works for me. I hope you end up the way you wanna be.
2006-08-07 00:46:27 · answer #5 · answered by re-re 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have u ever heard the expression opposties attract?
just be friends with him, see where it goes from there.
2006-08-07 00:43:24 · answer #6 · answered by dvl_n_dskyz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your feelings are driving you that crazy maybe you should just try. What the worst that can happen? He says no thanks?
2006-08-07 00:46:01 · answer #7 · answered by Kristy L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there your answer he has no interest in u
2006-08-07 00:44:47 · answer #8 · answered by quiet one 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are probley SPRUNG
2006-08-07 00:46:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋