I'm in my 20's, and married for over 2 years (we dated for less than a year then married.) Then, for the past several months, I feel myself falling out of love with my husband, due to his lack of financial responsibility, his negative attitude towards other people and our dull sex life. To make matters worse, I've begun to have an affair with a friend I've had a crush on for years, after maintaining online communication for 3 years. Note: I feel myself becoming emotionally attached to this friend...he is intelligent and very attractive, but he has made it clear that this is just about the sex. I keep thinking that the affair is just a result of my bad marriage, and that I should leave and pursue better things and find myself (I am young and still struggling with my self-identity), regardless of whether or not the friend is in the picture. I do feel a responsibility towards my husband and that I should stick it out and maybe things will get better? I'm also terrified of being alone.
2006-08-06
17:26:04
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Marriage & Divorce