He is my first love, and he says he'll come visit twice a month, but he says alot. I'm only 15 and he's about to be 19. We just broke up and it KILLED him. But we got back together. Plus there is this other guy that I have on my mind who is my age.....and I don't know if I should stay with him, or break it off again. And we've been dating for 6 months.
2006-08-06 17:22:07 · 27 answers · asked by Krissi 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Break it off, college is like a giant orgy. If you stay with him he'll just use you for sex when he is home on breaks from the orgy.
2006-08-06 17:24:06 · answer #1 · answered by red_necksuck 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow i hope this guy reads this knows your screen name and sees that you are not all that. You say you REALLY love him and then you say i have my mind on this OTHER guy. Whore comes to my mind or tramp. I mean if you love him try and have it work out, but if he is going to college 3 hours away. Once he finds out he can have girls in his dorm, his parents are no where around and also sees that these girls will do more or probably know more then you do at 15. Your gone. So honestly lil one. You have fun in HS, cause college breaks ever relationship that is left in HS. College is the best years of ones life. No need to be thinking about lil girls back home, when you have full busted and grown women right there ....... but you already have your "eye" on another. I hope he tells you how it is.
2006-08-07 00:27:51 · answer #2 · answered by Ash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships at your age are difficult to maintain. And you've got lots of other opportunities ahead of you. So does your boyfriend -- college will bring new experiences for him.
So, it sounds to me like your heart's not really in this long distance relationship. And if that's the case, you should break up with him. There's no point in staying in a relationship just to be polite.
You can do the break-up gently though and make sure he's okay. In time, he'll be just fine. What you had was nice, but it's best for both of you to move on now.
Best of luck with it. :o)
2006-08-07 00:29:28 · answer #3 · answered by epiCure 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By "we just broke up" I'm guessing you broke up with him, if it "KILLED him". If he's gone to college, then he'll probably be looking into other possibilities too. I've known MANY people that have had to go through long distance relationships (my N.G. Unit got deployed to Iraq), and NONE of the ones that started out on this type of note made it through.
Just break it off. I'm guessing it's what you want, but you don't want to hurt his feelings too much to the point of actually saying it. Honestly though, by just getting it out you'll save both you and him a lot of grief.
2006-08-07 00:24:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
save yourself the stress and break it off now...esp since you say you have your eye on another guy..i am in a long distance relationship (minnesota to illinois during the school year) and it is so tough! definately worth it but tough...the reason i say break it off is because of your age difference...he is going to be a freshman in college and want to experiance new things...you are so young and you should experiance your own things...have fun!!!! that's what you deserve right now! not having to worry about a boyfriend who is so far away. keep in touch as friends and if it works out it works out and that is great but don't let it bog you down right now! ps my bf and i have known each other for 10 years before we started dating and that strong base friendship is what has kept us together for so long (2 1/2 yrs through school)...and we are the same age...starting and finishing college at the same time (only 2 more years to go yeah!!!!) anyways, sorry for rambling but i hope this helps!!
2006-08-07 00:30:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go with the guy that is your age. If you broke up with him once appartenaly you lost your feelings for him. He will probably cheat on you anyway at college. Thats how everyone is when they go to college try to get as many girls as they can. And if you do decide to stay with him make it 3 days a week. Hope i helped you
2006-08-07 00:27:21 · answer #6 · answered by Hugo P. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there!
In my opinion you should rather be with the guy of your age, I am sure that the 19 yr. old one might be too good a person,but dating a guy so elder to you can cause undesirable consequences, due to the difference in biological exposure to you two. But if you do love him greatly, then be with him,just follow your heart and be careful in whatever step you take. ALL THE BEST
2006-08-07 00:27:24 · answer #7 · answered by Vanchit S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to break it to you but it's over. He'll only keep you around so he can have someone to mess around with over the breaks, if your lucky. I would move on. You all have only been dating for 6 months, I would end it now before you get played big time.
2006-08-07 00:26:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a four year difference in age is not much but being a parent myself, I would suggest seeing someone closer to your own age right now once you hit your 20's then 4 years wouldn't matter.
2006-08-07 00:31:03 · answer #9 · answered by Arnold Ziffel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is too old and he will have difficulty being faithful. You should move on to someone your own age. Long distance relationships don't work well. 3 hours might as well be 3 days away.
2006-08-07 00:27:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you stick to the guy you have at home....once he's in college you'll be the last thing on his mind. Besides you're 15...there will be many more after the first.
2006-08-07 00:26:04 · answer #11 · answered by Ruth Less RN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋