2006-08-06 17:31:31 · 35 answers · asked by jamie h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You know you married her and she deserves honesty and truth. If you hate her , then tell her to her face.
Say it and be honest. She deserves to know how you feel about her or else you will both just be miserable and have major resentment.
2006-08-06 17:37:02 · answer #1 · answered by TiredofIdiots 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dang..is it that deep? 4 real? I'm trying 2 think of how it was watching my parents all the time. They would yell n scream at each other from the top of their lungs..just goin at it like there wasn't a care in the world..like they didn't have 2 children in the house who needed them so much. 2 this day, i'm uneasy around tension..i don't like 2 be around a lot of screaming n hollering..do u have kids?..if u do..try 2 make it work w/your wife man..I mean, she's ur wife..if u think u hate her, u loved her once. U probably don't even hate ur wife, man. There's probably just so much anger build inside that it's just busting out like a volcano n pointing u towards the word "hate." But u wanna kno what my parents did, man, 2 make their marriage last? They went 2 counseling. It helped out a lot..they found out things about each other n learned how 2 deal w/each other in ways that they never thought were possible. They made it work man..so can u. A friend of mine once told me that hate is a senseless emotion...one half of the ppl u hate don't know it n the other half just doesn't care. And i'm pretty sure she cares because she's ur wife. Make it work...make it work...
Peace n Love man.......
2006-08-06 18:29:19 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. Musically Inclined 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Hate" is a very strong word for someone you said you would love until death. Something obviously has changed. If you feel counseling would help you get into touch with those warm feelings you once had for her, by all means make the appointment. If you feel it's too late... no reason to tell her you hate her... let her know you're unhappy in the relationship and that you are moving out. Let her know that you are a fair person and that you will tell your lawyer that you plan to be fair. Encourage her to get an attorney as well... take the high road my friend... you'll be glad you did.
2006-08-06 18:55:37 · answer #3 · answered by Mike S 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A good way of letting her know would have been to never ask her to marry you in the first place. Maybe grow some balls and just tell her how you feel. How pathetic are you posting a question like that on the internet??? Your asking people who know nothing about you or your wife or your situation how to tell your wife you hate her?? Seriously, that is the most pathetic horrible thing, you need to grow up and be a man.
2006-08-06 17:36:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
How could a husband hate his wife ? What wrong has she done. Maybe she may not be up to your expectations but you choose her as your wife in the first place. Haven't you promised God that you will be with her till the end ?
Get some marriage counseling. You cant just throw away family members like that just because they don't meet your expectations.
2006-08-06 17:45:21 · answer #5 · answered by Bachelor boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should hate you, maybe she does! You took vows before God and man to love, honor and cherish. So, whatever happened couldn't be that bad. what is so great about you that you think she will be devastated? Maybe she will be relieved. Are children involved? You need to be a man and take care of those kids if there are,or are you trying to get out of that responsibility too. Have you made her life such that she will be alone raising them without the help she will need from their father, I hope not, you deserve to be cursed if that's what you've done.
If it's just her, she will survive and be better for it. How can you Hate someone you married and vowed to. You have problems. Put a sign around your neck so the rest of the world will know. Blessings to your wife, no help from me how to tell her, you figure it out.
2006-08-06 17:46:44 · answer #6 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have a dinner somewhere. Start the conversation on what your differeences. Ask her what in you she doesn' t like and from there you can tell her honestly what you really feel now about her. If she is a kind of wife who easily freaks out then the best place you can talk about this is inside your bedroom. Goodluck.
2006-08-06 17:42:32 · answer #7 · answered by amber200271 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you hate her? If she's that bad, then you need to tell her what the problem is and then in a considerate way tell her how you feel about her actions, etc. Don't just straight tell her that you hate her! That would be cruel.
2006-08-06 17:39:42 · answer #8 · answered by veaj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Stand there looking at her demonic like.. and say I HATE YOU.
2. Say softly to her while you hold her in your arms, by her neck..i hate you.
3. Run out the door screaming I HATE YOU.
2006-08-06 17:35:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you hate you wife than you should never have married her.If you hate her that much than you should divorce her.Maybe she hates you,too.Hate means that you want the person dead.I can't imagine that you want your wife dead.Maybe you need some help.
2006-08-06 17:38:19 · answer #10 · answered by Sander 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋