Why cant we bring ourselves to put out anymore? What are those underlying feelings of disgust for?
2006-08-06 17:35:26 · 10 answers · asked by Nuni 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
STD's
2006-08-06 17:40:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's an inevitable consequence of their having betrayed you. They are not attractive to you anymore. Remember, women feel aroused not merely because of hormones or visual stimulation like men. If we don't feel good about a person, we can't. And you not only feel hurt, and you disrespect their lack of loyalty, but you also feel disgust. Why would you not feel disgusted if someone is a cheating liar?
Not that you should never forgive, if he does all the right things, but don't go feeling guilty for withdrawing and finding what they did disgusting!
2006-08-07 00:43:59 · answer #2 · answered by browneyedgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe sex is much more to a woman than a man. Women have deeper emotions and those cause us to shut down in this case scenario. Sleep with a cheat b4 being checked for STD'S could cost your life. The fact that "they" could be that close with someone else cuts you to the core, that has to heal....along with the anger.
2006-08-07 00:50:02 · answer #3 · answered by a2zchristian4ever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because giving yourself to one another is supposed to be a sacred and beautiful thing. If they have been unfaithful then the trust and respect is gone and most women can't share that intimacy under those circumstances. Putting out is what happens when your easy and care about nothing but sex. Sorry you asked.
2006-08-07 00:56:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cuz when you have a boyfriend/husband every second of that intimate moment has so much feeling and trust and you think that your his only one and you do everything possible to make him feel good...and when he cheats on you...its like he took all those intimate moments and crumpled them up and threw them in the trash saying...LOOK...i found some who does me BETTER than YOU...ouch!!! that's why we are just like get away from me...
2006-08-07 00:51:56 · answer #5 · answered by Kikkis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. It works as their shield in showing their anger.
2. They don't feel to have sex with cheaters.
3. They want those men to understand females better.
4. They feel they were used by unreliable & insincere persons.
But you should also know one more thing:
You find such people in both the sex.
Because in this world, all are selfish. Selfishness makes every one blind. Blindness makes you to commit blunders.
2006-08-07 00:48:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. I did, and still do. You lose all respect for someone who betrays you. It hurts unbelieveably, and you never want them to forget that. You feel like jumping right back in and trying to pretend that nothing ever happened is letting him off the hook to easily. And it's hard to be attracted to a snake.
2006-08-07 00:43:26 · answer #7 · answered by umicantgetaname 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he held, kissed, screwed, shared tender moments & thoughts with another WOMAN!! Hello... I might put up with alot but cheating is totally unacceptable. I would lose my attraction to him INSTANTLY if I found out he cheated.
2006-08-07 00:43:48 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if my husband ever cheated on me i would never have sex with him again... i wouldnt want to catch whatever the whore he had sex with...!
2006-08-07 00:39:32 · answer #9 · answered by xcx_zqz_kvk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you have been violated and your trust and love has been violated
2006-08-07 00:50:33 · answer #10 · answered by manyhartz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋