I have been to personal counciling many times in the past. Learning where my flaws and insecurities are from and how to fix them. My fiance wants to blame me when he doesnt do something and it goes undone. He says that I never let him win. I dont know what we are supposed to be competing for. He says i tell him he is not a "man". When infact i have never known a better man than him. I feel he wants: a slave, an unintelligent woman , and for me to not ever have an opinion. I am a very strong single mother of two teenagers. I have a college education and have worked since I was 13 yrs old. I take care of my mother, my siblings, my friends and my children. I have never depended on anyone in my life to take care of me. So how do i get him to understand that i can not be stupid, nieve, lazy, irresponsible, nor can i allow other people to take from me what i do not offer them.
2006-08-05
08:56:33
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majikmachelle
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Marriage & Divorce