like go out side and stay out there or go to your room and don't come out or t.v off and go to bed or you got to go to bed.
2006-08-05 08:48:07 · 65 answers · asked by keybobbie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Do what they tell you to do. Be nice to them. Shower them with compliments, and help out around the house. Then they won't be so hard on you.
2006-08-05 08:50:43 · answer #1 · answered by rdiva_2007 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you want your parents to be really mean and tell you to go play in traffic? or how about they beat you and ask questions later? What if they locked you outside all day long and only let you come in long enough to sleep on the hard floor? That is real abuse, parents really being mean. I think you need to think about that stuff before you get on here with usual kid stuff that is really pety. Unless your parents are ignoring you and sending you outside because of their drug use or to your room just to get rid of you, then you have a problem and you do need to seek out someone to talk to about that. Otherwise kid you arnt alone. Good parents are somewhat mean and make their kids go to bed and not run in and out of the house.
2006-08-05 08:57:20 · answer #2 · answered by c g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see here you left that door wide open. Do what your told the first time and you will get by with a lot more. Act responsible you get more privileges. Are You a Den lizard by some chance parked underfoot in front of the TV set. OH can we say your not helping and if she's lucky you pick up your feet so she can vacuum under them....stop me if I'm wrong I have son probably about your age if I could guess it but that would be my advice. Have a good one:-)
2006-08-05 08:55:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a parents place in life is to guide you, teach you for later life, when you go into the big bad world you have to be able to take discipline, and be respectful, even tho it sux sometimes, parents and children very rarely agree on how things shud be done, but i dont think, that they nessecarily know.. how you feel,.. have you spoken with them.. in a calm grown up manner and asked them,? the more you show them, how responsable you can be , the more leanient you will find they will be... act like a brat youll get treated like one ect.. not saying you are ..its down to you.. plus sometimes children will watch tv all night and have to be told time out ..too much energy lol and they think they are old enough to stay up as long as they want ..and as parents we know a good sleep is needed for the body. so we have a clash of interests, but, theres is the heathiest,, for the moment , youve got plenty of time in the future coming, to do all that stuff when your in the position to be able to and no one to say go to bed turn tv off ect.. just remember your still learning for the future, and it duz affect you, so try not to see it as being mean,...... i had to do it and i wud bet almost every1 on here had to , too...but communication is a very good way of sorting problems with parents ...so long as theyre not shouting matches, and you have to understand you might not always like what you hear, but you cant have everything your own way ...i know lol...the best word of all is compromise......
2006-08-05 09:14:27 · answer #4 · answered by she wolf. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write to Lyle & Eric Menedez in care of the California State Penitentiary.
2006-08-05 08:53:13 · answer #5 · answered by Jenny Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To u or each other? Tell them how it makes you feel when they r being mean. It's hard 2 hear that from your kids...especially if the parent is stressed. But if they were to take a step back and relax, think about how their behavior is affecting you, then they will hopefully change their ways. If that fails, PRAY.
2006-08-05 08:53:21 · answer #6 · answered by Gette 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is realize they are your parents. They make rules for you to protect you and keep you from doing things you might regret later in life. Being a teenager is hard, and you don't always feel like they are being fair, but they aren't trying to hurt you. From what you said, it just sounds like they are treating you like parents should treat their children. Someday you will be glad that you had rules. Trust me.
2006-08-05 08:56:07 · answer #7 · answered by redfeathermagpie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to live with your parents until you are 18, or you become emancipated. Your parents really don't mean to be "mean" to you, they think they are doing something to help you grow up properly. In a few years, you will see what they are trying to teach you wasn't that bad...and one day, your own 13-14 year old child will be telling someone how "mean" you are;)
2006-08-05 08:54:27 · answer #8 · answered by ralahinn1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe mom and dad just want to make you a new sister or brother?
Uhmm,... Have you tried just talking with them? Like asking them why they are doing what they did, and What can you do to please them, or make them happy?
Some parents aren't as good at being good parents as others. Simply because every kid is special and parents don't have special instructions on raising any kid in particular.
It doesn't hurt to try to make things better.
At least your parents aren't beating you, yet.
My mom used to whip me a lot when I was little. I learned because she didn't know what to do with a kid, she didn't have the instructions to raise one, and so when she got frustrated she beat me.
2006-08-05 08:57:30 · answer #9 · answered by somber_pieces 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you consider mean, they may consider good and/or protective parenting. Other than talking with them there's not much you can do.
Minors have few rights. You have the right not to be abused, to be fed, clothed and educated. Other than that, you'll have to wait for adulthood and find your own way.
2006-08-05 08:56:00 · answer #10 · answered by Hidden .38 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋