Family & Relationships - 1 August 2006

i am 24. i have been friends with this married girl of 27, since few yrs, i am even close to her family. i live alone so they treat me as family.
i never looked at her in any wrong way till one day few months back.. it was a a rainy, cold afternoon & i was in hell of a romantic mood..
since it was my off day.. as usual i used to visit her house. she as usual was busy with her work, (she had a miscarriage few mths before that, was not well mentally physically, depresed) my eyes kept going to her & i kept watching her, with many feeling growing in my heart. sudenly i cud take it no more nd i started trying to get close to her n touch her. she kept brushing me off. this went on 4 sumtime till she responded to my feelings.
well 2 cut a long story short.. after few days we started a relationship, at first it was just 4 fun, but later we realised we were in love.
after sometime i had to shift to another city, we got married before i left, coz we believed our love was true. r we wrong?

2006-08-01 22:48:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

That wounds never go-off through out once life?
Is that man/woman is unsuccessful in their life?? What's the solution for thoese mad peoples???

2006-08-01 22:46:40 · 9 answers · asked by Rjn 1 in Singles & Dating

He's extreemly cute and fit, half a party animal and half a geek, which I adore.
He tries to talk to me, cuddle me, even when we are with his huge croud of friends.
He pays for everything when we go out.
He runs to get a medicine when I'm not feeling well at his friends party in the middle of the night.
He takes care of me.
...but
He asks me "Why haven't you called or mailed me? I was waiting last night online..." but I'm a believer of a "girl don't text a guy and ask out, make him do it!" Yeah, he doesn't text me often as I like...
He says he think I'm "cute" but I haven't heard any other compliments in words yet from his mouth.
We haven't had sex yet cuz I said I don't want it yet.

So he is in love with me? Not sure...

2006-08-01 22:45:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-01 22:45:10 · 9 answers · asked by ajay_male2002 1 in Friends

i've been wondering if i should tell my girlfriend that there was a night in college where my best friend (who is a guy) and i had sex. he and i got drunk and high and i just got dumped, and sadly i remember it all.

2006-08-01 22:45:07 · 39 answers · asked by ex-junkie in blinding love 1 in Singles & Dating

i have da perfect inocent guy!! who is even 2 religous!! 8 months back.. he popose 2 me!! an i said yes!! now he open up da subject da let get married!! an im still 18!!... so im scared tht im skippin alot of ma life!! should i get married or noT??

2006-08-01 22:44:01 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am 24. i have been friends with this married girl of 27, since few yrs, i am even close to her family. i live alone so they treat me as family.
i never looked at her in any wrong way till one day few months back.. it was a a rainy, cold afternoon & i was in hell of a romantic mood..
since it was my off day.. as usual i used to visit her house. she as usual was busy with her work, (she had a miscarriage few mths before that, was not well mentally physically, depresed) my eyes kept going to her & i kept watching her, with many feeling growing in my heart. sudenly i cud take it no more nd i started trying to get close to her n touch her. she kept brushing me off. this went on 4 sumtime till she responded to my feelings.
well 2 cut a long story short.. after few days we started a relationship, at first it was just 4 fun, but later we realised we were in love.
after sometime i had to shift to another city, we got married before i left, coz we believed our love was true. r we wrong?

2006-08-01 22:42:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-01 22:41:48 · 7 answers · asked by Jacqui D 1 in Singles & Dating

a few hours ago my boyfriend and i came home to my apartment. I laid him down on the bed and he seemed nervous. We'd had sex before but this was the first time he asked is that necessary when i undid his belt. he acted so embaressed and nervous. he asked me "what are you doing?" and i tried to grope him and he got up and left. i didn't understand what was wrong. until i found out by his best friend that the other night at one of his gigs i couldn't go to, some losers drugged him, he got high and had passionate sex with a girl he'd never met in a closet. when the drugs wore off he cried all night in his and his best friend's apartment and took a walk in the morning and came home with red eyes.i'm not mad. i just can't imagine the pain he's going through. what should i do to get him from feeling so guilty and able to have sex with me again?

2006-08-01 22:41:41 · 12 answers · asked by bekah 2 in Singles & Dating

While away on a military course i cheated on my current girlfriend. She stayed with me but the past year has not been easy, especially for her. I am currently over seas but due to come home soon. We have a promising future together provided we can get the necessary help to assist us through this very difficult time. I am willing to do anything for her and for our relationship and I fully understand that her decision, either for or against us remaining a couple, are solely in her hands. I know I'm the biggest a@#hole in the world and I don't deserve her but I'm willing to try. Ilove her with all my heart and I will wait eternally if that's what it takes to win her back.

2006-08-01 22:36:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am sad. You can write chinese? My english not so good, So I hope can telp my problem to you. Please give me your email. Thank you.

2006-08-01 22:35:44 · 3 answers · asked by Sheh_hoon 2 in Friends

2006-08-01 22:35:36 · 3 answers · asked by cissie1977 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm facing opposition from my family and society members. But we love both each other more than anything in this world. We can leave without each other.

2006-08-01 22:34:50 · 16 answers · asked by Aparna 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

means sincerity does not pay(mostly)

2006-08-01 22:34:08 · 6 answers · asked by raashi 2 in Friends

I've just started dating this guy ,& he has told me that his ex-girlfriend visits him so I must not be shocked when I go to visit him and find the chick there instead I must understand.What I want to know is would you understand this visiting thing or would you tell your man to stop being friends with the ex because I honestly don't think I'll be able to understand. plz help me girlfriends

2006-08-01 22:33:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

none

2006-08-01 22:33:11 · 14 answers · asked by glad4you 2 in Singles & Dating

I lost my virginity to this guy,we were together 3 yrs.We were so happy but one time he pushed me at the 2 1/2 yr mark we stayed together six months after that, he never did that again or anything but I was so hurt I decided I couldn't take it anymore so I left.Now I'm old and I still love him.It's 4 yrs later.He begged me to come back and even got my name tattooed but I wouldn't I needed space to think but I was too shy to tell him back then.Now I'm older and not so shy I still love him and we both appologized but he's in arelationship now and he confuses me he blurted out that he doesn't love any girl but me and never will at a party since he's been with her and he hugged me and wouldn't let go and he was touching on me and stuff and he said he doesn't regret the tattoo yet even though he's my first love and I don't see anyone else he s the one maybe he says if I want him back I know what to do.How do I get over him if its already been 4 yrs and I still cant?Was I wrong?He pushed m

2006-08-01 22:30:57 · 16 answers · asked by devotion 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I will be back on the market after a 12 year marriage after awhile. Eventually down the line i will want to date. do men have a problem seriously dating a woman wiht kids and why or why not?

2006-08-01 22:29:01 · 19 answers · asked by Veronique 3 in Singles & Dating

2 guyz not perfect!! they both anoy me!! but i gatta choose 1 even if he will be just a close friend!! one guy is anoys me by his starbeness!! an da other guy annoys me by his sweetness!! luk--'i never want leave' or 'i love u forever' hez such gurl!! whom would i choose or should i choose da none??

2006-08-01 22:28:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

am girl aged 23 and i have got a boyfriend out of my country i speak to him once a month through the phone sometimes not, so help me does this boy loves me or not ?

2006-08-01 22:27:26 · 9 answers · asked by Emma Chiwanda 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I ain't telling you mine until I see some answers from the rest of you studs and ladies though

2006-08-01 22:27:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-01 22:27:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Name should be unique and easy to pronounce.

2006-08-01 22:27:00 · 12 answers · asked by kar_lo_baat 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-01 22:26:41 · 29 answers · asked by anina 1 in Friends

if a guy is quiet at skool and hardly talks 2 any girls but talks 2 his mates aloooot wat wud u fink of him. p.s-- girls n boiz seperated in skool

2006-08-01 22:23:49 · 11 answers · asked by ....CuRiOuS.... 1 in Singles & Dating

why are people and the word so judgemental b/c what ppl say,do,act and just who other people are???

2006-08-01 22:22:17 · 8 answers · asked by yanaizdabomb 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-01 22:21:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i like both...

2006-08-01 22:21:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am going to have sex with a lady for the 1st time in my life, but I am kinda not confident of my tools! Therefore, I would like to tell you about my tools and you tell me whether she will like or no...

*I am handsome enough to attract girls for having sex with
* sexy body with an open and hairy chest (Not very hairy like a monkey)
* 6.5 inches long, strong like a rock, fat like a cucumber in its season
* I am educated enough in sex as I read alot about sex and watch as well.

Since I am going to have this for the 1st time.. I would like from you to advise me if I am qualified to make her goes crazy or no

Thanks

2006-08-01 22:21:04 · 20 answers · asked by salah m 1 in Singles & Dating

He is shy and I don't know if he loves me.
At our first meeting she looked so beautiful at me, telling me with his eyes that he likes me but he never said it. At our next meeting he gave me his all original PC games, about 150.
I gave him a mobile message that I like the games. And he answered: I'm so glad that you like them. Tell me other game names and I'll try to find them for you. Bye and take care. Then he sended me a message that sounded like this: I see that you use emoticons. Are you using messenger? If you do, let's meet there. Then we talke about things. He said that nobody loves him and no one cares about him. Then he gave me such a romantic melody. In the morning he gave me a message: Morning sunshine. I like that I talked with you last night, my darling, you are a really good chatter. Kiss&miss u. Take care. And he didn't give me a sign since Friday. He said that he'll go to a village for a week. And he doesn't have internet up there. Maybe he doesn't have mobile signal

2006-08-01 22:20:58 · 9 answers · asked by ancutzabatalar 3 in Friends